High needs baby

Who said this? Professionals? My baby luckily has got past been cranky 24/7 but is exactly the same with everything else

Who has told you/classed them as this?! I mean, he sounds like a normal baby, to be honest.

^ agreed!

Oh my goodness. If the baby is very attached, it’s because they need you more. Nothing wrong with that. But it takes a lot of presence and energy from you, I see you. We’re in the same boat. Just here to say that at least for us, baby girl started crawling and loves it. She’s getting better at entertaining herself, but she still has a strong preference for me being nearby. What helped me was a) wearing her A LOT, b) going to mum&baby fitness classes because I needed the strength to carry her and because i liked it better than baby classes, and there’s lots happening for baby to watch, c) encouraging her to find boring everyday tasks fun, like folding the laundry and cooking. And the Happy Song. On repeat.

High needs??! Why oh why has this been described in a way like your boy is different and a problem ? (Albeit does sound exhausting! 😅) My boy can play alone but for max 20 mins before he also needs me. Though it’s much shorter if he’s tired. He will probably be more entertained once crawling more but still will want you!! If it’s worth knowing my mum always tells me that my brother was just like this and needed constant entertaining ….. and he’s turned out the smart one! I’d say it’s a sign of intelligence 😊

My girl is a lot like this, definitely more than my boy was (nearly 3yo). Unfortunately it’s more of a personality trait rather than something to ‘grow out of’ - some babies are just more spirited and need more engagement, just the same as there are introverted and extroverted adults! I wouldn’t worry if you are, the wanting to be held just shows how much of a safe space you are to them and enjoy your company. My girl loves crawling around but will circle back to me every 10 mins or so, sometimes for a cuddle then wants to be off again 30 secs later 😅 or stands against the sofa to ‘play’ with me (just banging on the cushion with a big cheesy grin).