Would you consider him gay ?

It's a fetish/fantasy for some men that has nothing to do with being gay.

@Janni ❤️ I get it I just thought it was a little suspect .

You do realise gay men are sexually attracted to men, right? 😅 I don't understand how your logic is a man who wants several women has to be gay. It makes absolutely no sense.

@Aurélie how doesn’t it ? So you wouldn’t think it’s suspicious a man has to constantly have sex with multiple women ? I feel like maybe he can’t get up with 1 women so how would 2 please him ? I dont understand it myself but was given advice he might be DL.

Because a gay man is attracted to men! He wouldn't want to have sex with women, he wouldn't seek to have sex with multiple women. Maybe because you're bi you don't understand that straight people aren't sexually attracted to the same sex and gay people aren't sexually attracted to the opposite sex. There are so many reason a man wouldn't be able to get it up with a woman. Medical reason, lack of attraction, stress... But why would he want another one to not be able to get it up either? Unless the other woman has a strap on, I'm so confused about your logic. 😅 Do you mean you think he's in denial about his sexuality? If he is, he's behaviour would be a bit fucked up to torture himself trying to have sex with several people of the gender he doesn't find attractive. 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️

He might have a fetish for lesbianism but that would not make him homosexual himself LMFAOOOOO

@Aurélie Idk what your age is or if you even understand but you’d be surprised and actually where I’m from a lot of men do this have multiple women he messes around with but Is secretly having relations either men (Down Low) . Usually the first sign of being ( DL ) = secretly messing with men on the low is messing with multiple women or having these weird fantasies of always have 3 sums or having sex with multiple women a day . And I was just using an example of “him not getting up” maybe as to why he would want multiple women at once I’m also going off the advice I was given from an older women you don’t need to attack me of my opinion but I get how society reacts to the word “gay” now and days I guess you have to watch what you say or how you word it . 🤦🏾‍♀️

I do feel some men use all their hyper sexuality with women to cover up being closeted gay. It’s sad.

@Parker 又 I guess 🤷🏽‍♀️

Do you mean to ‘prove’ he’s not gay? Like he’s soooo hetero he needs two women!?

@Zaza Thank you!! I knew I wasn’t tripping it makes sense tho cause why would you constantly need multiple women to have sex with or ALWAYS want a 3 sum it’s more than just a fantasy.

@Sorrel Basically

I'm sorry if I offended you, to me this logic doesn't make sense. I don't know where you're from but the only time I've heard of this type of things happening is in the middle East. Thanks for clarifying DL, I had to no idea what it meant. I'm in my 30s, loads of friends in the gay community and I like to think I'm educated and open minded. I've even asked you if you meant that you thought the gay was in denial about his sexuality or still in the closet. Maybe that'd make sense. I'm not a gay man in denial but to me it still is wild he'd want to have sex with multiple women to hide the fact he was gay. But what do I know. I'm not a therapist now a gay man still in the closet. 😅 Good luck with that. I wouldn't listen to older generation personally. I'd stay well clear of someone who makes you confused and doesn't add to your life, just as a general advice. Good luck 😊👍🏼

I get what ur saying!! I’ve often thought this too

Then having the relations with the man would make him gay not the fantasies of 3 sums. I don’t think they are attacking because of you saying the word gay I think it’s the fact you think him wanting multiple women makes him gay😅 I think many guys think about having multiple women.

I get what you’re saying, almost like they’re overcompensating. I’ve known a couple of ‘ladies men’ who have later come out. But I do think lots of straight guys just do like the idea of a threesome. They’re excited to see 2 women together and probably makes them feel like some kind of sex god if they can satisfy 2 women 🤷🏽‍♀️

sounds like a horny guy trying to get as much puss as possible & also enjoying the woman on woman aspect

Yesssssssssssss like they gotta be down low

“Hey fellas is it gay to want extra pussy?”

@Victoria 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

@Victoria literally that lmao

@Victoria yea because what straight man is going to say “yea that’s gay” 😅Obviously you never met/seen or know what a DL man is .

@Mizzy it’s not about that . Some men use that as a disguise whole time there into men!

@Zaza Glad I’m not the only one who is open minded here .

@Aurélie Oh it’s not my problem anymore i just wanted to see what other people thought as I’m not the only person on this post who has thought/felt this way.

Yeah if they use it as a disguise then I would say bi? Unless they strictly want to be with a male then gay. I think it was just your wording. It’s kinda like you saying if you want multiple men your gay 😭

@Mizzy I’ve just seen this before it’s always the men who like to mess with multiple women at once that end up coming out the closet 🤦🏾‍♀️

It still makes no sense to label them as gay for wanting multiple women like I said I think it’s maybe you’re wording? 😭 idk it just sounds weird to me.

That’s not gay that’s just a womaniser/player who likes to be promiscuous 😂 Men liking other men is gay. Men liking and wanting numerous girls is just a player/womaniser to me lolol

Let me see if I get what you are saying.. a man that sleeps with multiple women usually (in your opinion) is also sleeping with men because they have such a high sex drive that one is not enough. And does that mean he is gay?

Lol no

I would not say gay, but maybe could have an underlying porn issue. If gay i would think it would be damn near impossible for them to want more physical interactions especially with mulitple women