Would you date someone who never makes out with you?

He doesn’t even want to do it as foreplay or before sex?

@Brittany no. He doesn’t kiss me at all during sex

Personally I wouldn’t be bothered by it. I love a smooch but I’m not about snogging, never been into tongues and all that.

I only actually like pecks. I make out because that's what others like, and it doesn't bother me enough to say no to it. So this wouldn't bother me personally. I also prefer body kisses as a form of foreplay

As I've gotten older/ been with my husband so long we stopped kissing like that. We've only done peck ones i haven't washed too kids like that tho.

Hmmmm. I mean ultimately it comes down to what you desire, what you need when it comes to affection, etc. For me, it would be really weird to go straight to sex or other foreplay without kissing. Do you feel like it’s a deal breaker for you?

I didn’t even know there were people who didn’t like kissing! Whoa. Fascinating news to me.

@Brittany I guess it’s not because we’ve been together for 4 years and have a child BUT every now and then I get frustrated and want to be kissed and when I mention it he plays stupid like I haven’t told him a billion times before that I like to make out and it just ruins the mood. In hindsight maybe it should’ve been a deal breaker for me but it’s a little late for that.

We are 10years into our relationship (7 married) and french kissing has died out to almost extinct since having our LO. The other day we 'snogged' and it felt pretty awkward - I was nervous laughing🤣 What is that even about? It was nothing like that at the start all those years ago and I hope we can get to a point where it's a regular, non-awkward occurrence again.

I couldn’t do it personally. Would feel rather strange

It wouldn’t bother me personally but my husband also always kisses me passionately. We really only French kiss when we’re having sex and even then it’s not a lot

I don't really like kiss with tongue. It can be sensual and amazing with just no tongue. My partner likes it but I don't so we don't do it usually and he is totally fine with it.

19yrs married and we still smooch 😂🤣😂🤣 in the shower. Before sex. Before bed. Doesn’t always lead to sex, most times it does. I just like sitting on him, putting my legs around him and pashing him for a bit. We couldn’t initiate without kissing I dunno that’s weird for me like do you guys go straight for it? Or he does? I mean I KIND of understand being married for so long and not smooching anymore, but during dating stages? Like early on? All we did was kiss. 💁🏻‍♀️😂

That’d be a dealbreaker for me because I love kissing and it’s personal and intimate. the fact he doesn’t like it is a bit odd

Ah me and my fiance love a good snog! 🤣. He had an ex who only ever pecked and he (secretly) hated it and felt very dissatisfied. I'm like you, I feel its part of foreplay!

I am that person who doesn’t like it. I do have sensory issues though and have ADHD, so that’s likely the cause. I love kissing but don’t like kissing with tongues, never have. Or going down on someone, or cum in general, I would like your bodily fluids to stay in your body thanks lol

I broke up with my long term boyfriend for several reasons 5 months ago. One of them was that he didn’t kiss me like I wanted. We have been working on our issues and now he’s kissing me and can’t stop LoL! My boyfriend is really open to new things and he came with reasons I could accept for not kissing me like I wanted to be kissed but overtime it was what I really wanted and was one of the reasons I left. I felt bad about myself when he wouldn’t kiss me like I wanted! However, dating was horrible, so I came running back regardless of wanting to be kissed I wanted what was best for me and my kids!!! It’s really something you have to think about. Your love language is so important!!! My boyfriend is a great guy who wants to fix anything. He’ll do anything to make it work!

I require it, so I usually can’t be with someone who isn’t a kisser

Maybe try to talk to him about it when you’re not about to do something sexual?

I mean it's disgusting if you think about it lol 🤣🤣 maybe he's a germophobe. But it wouldn't bother me because people like what they like. You just find a different way to do it or other things. However how long have y'all been together?? I guess it's ultimately upto you and what you're willing to compromise on.

I would run that is going to get old because I bet he'll still want you to do foreplay things for him sex will start to be like a chore if your needs are not met as well

My husband and I got married in our later 30s and both said we didn't really like kissing before we met each other. We have such great chemistry and our kissing is 🔥. We both were shocked at how much we liked making out with each other.

I am one of the strange people who absolutely hate it! The mere thought of it makes me gag, never mind actually doing it. My husband has just had to accept it, I just can't bring myself to do it.

If I really loved making out then I probably wouldn’t date someone who didn’t like it. I don’t really enjoy making out very much tho so 🤷‍♀️