Aita

My partner has two children ( boys) to a previous relationship. 1 child with me (18 months) and another one on the way (Jan). We have SS every other weekend, a week during the school holidays (May half term or July-August half term) and a week at Christmas. Partner didn’t discuss having SS during the Halloween half term, however he has told kids and ex partner that he will have the kids for a few days during this holiday… he shouldn’t have done considering he has just started a new job and he didn’t know what shifts he would be working, we are also staying at MY mums as we live out of town and are currently house hunting in the area my family and partner now works in. He’s got a text of kids mam asking when he was collecting the kids and only sprung it on me after receiving that text that he had told them and her that he would have them…. I have told him to text her being honest and apologising that he can’t have them due to working. He is expecting me to travel to pick the kids up and look after them aswell as my own little one at 30 weeks pregnant on my own with no help from anyone because family don’t live where we do, they can’t stay at my mums house and I have an consultant appointment on Friday which I can’t take my own daughter too let alone his kids. He’s has told me I’m selfish, I don’t care etc which I have replied “I did not carry them children for 9 months, I did not birth them children, it wasn’t discussed with me we never ever have them during the October half term, and you should have kept your mouth shut considering you’ve started a new job and didn’t know what shifts you were working, it is not my fault, I am not going to be looking after children who aren’t mine” especially after a lot of stuff going down at the moment with SS and their mother. Now I’m the arsehole and the world’s worst person. 😏