Help me solve this for a friend. See comments. Relationship or nothing?

My girlfriend has a " friend " that is male. They go out to dinner, spend several nights a week together, have s** and he does things for her regularly. I feel like this sounds like a relationship. She is in denial because she feels like it isn't. I am fearful she will lose him, which will devastate her if she doesn't come to a realization. My friends and I are encouraging her to call it like it is.
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Sounds like a friends with benefits situation to me

If the dude she’s hanging with isn’t calling it a relationship then it’s just being friends WITH benefits. I learned, things that are for you won’t confuse you. I understand that’s your friend but if this is a lesson, let her learn on her own cause you can’t always get your friends to make realizations while they are in the green moment…things are going good right now for her(I assume). If she knows it’s not a relationship then maybe they discussed what it was from the jump before getting into all of that.It’s probably something yall don’t know. I would just stop trying to encourage and just watch and support as needed cause even friends won’t tell you literally everything.

Let her call it what she wants. I fail to see the issue and why it’s such a big deal for you.

I guess I just don't want to see her hurt. She just got out of a nasty divorce.

Oh you should’ve been said that. GIRL SHES HAVING FUN!!!!😂😂😂😂😂Let them hunch and have brunch😂😂😂

Can be friends with benefits?

If she’s having a fun time why force her to label it? Just let her be.

If she’s just come out of a divorce then she needs friends in her life that she can lean on and make her happy - male female, doesn’t matter. Sounds like he’s making her happy for now. Some people are in “situationships” aka FWB but not really together. Women have needs too. Just be there for her.

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