What’s ways to show appreciation after thinking actions isn’t good enough and bare minimum?

TW : After being in this group reading some of you guys post, l have came to the realization that I may have one of the world's best baby father and I need ways to show him hm I appreciate him (FOR THE BARE MINIMUM) because your stories is literally like coming out of lifetime or the maury show and I just wanna say that SOME of yall stupid for letting your bodies go through that process for the whole nine months and could possibly DIE to still not have a father for your kid and I think that's pretty selfish knowing how that affects kids, THEY WANT THEIR REAL DAD not a Step in or step up Because in my experience, my baby daddy kissed the ground I walked in and gave me bands every month and got me a push gift, was at every appointment, leaving work on break to bring me food across town ETCCCCCC and we was only 18-19 years old.

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Incognito bc I don’t wanna be removed for being too harsh / blunt at our big ass prehistoric ages 😭😭

Congratulations? Men change or lie about wanting kids and some women would rather have the child anyway regardless of the dads involvement which is their choice to make. As for appreciation it depends on your relationship and what he would like. Maybe cook his favorite meal, a present, or a conversation telling him how much you appreciate him. It could be as simple as acknowledgment.

I’m sorry but if you’re kissing the ground your bd walks on bc he gives you the bare minimum then you need to realize that’s not okay either. Men change. Especially when their partner is changing and growing a baby. I’m confused on whether you want actual advice or are just spewing bullshit because you feel entitled?? Do you want a cookie???

Also there’s a difference between being blunt and being straight up rude. Seek help🫶🏻

What was the point of this post thou? To bash other women? Or to be happy that ur man provides the bare minimum and you don’t know how to reciprocate the bare minimum? It’s group called BD drama… but good for you. But to answer the question just ask ya friends. I feel like u have a great time making and keeping em.

I used to believe him kissing the ground I walk on and being a great partner and father was bare minimum and wasn’t enough like I always wanted more and more BUT y’all posts in here are clearly making me feel bad and how I feel is wrong and was NEEDING TIPS ON HOW TO SHOW HIM IM SORRY! don’t be mad at me bc yall bds hate yall and had to spend the pregnancy alone, getting cheated on and WORSE like the red flags weren’t CLEAR as day and he aint told yall get rid of them pissy ssa kids 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Don’t be mad at me! be mad at yourself for doing that to your kids that’s gonna grow up with issues and self esteem problems wondering why daddy was never there but there for his other actually wanted kids tfffff

Also this group description say post the GOOD NOT JUST THE BAD !! And if yall had “ rude “ blunt people in yall life YALL WOULDNT BE ON THIS APP IN THIS GROUP COMPLAINING ON HOW HE DONT DO THE BARE MINIMUM LIKE WASHING THE DAMN KIDS UP OR PICKING UP MILK / DIAPERSSSS!

Just my little two cents that nobody wanted just like the daddy ain’t dem kidsssss😂😂🧏🏿‍♀️

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