Relationship issues

How do you manage the intimacy with your partner? I am really struggling having sex with him. I have 2 under 2 and running out of energy, and honesty zero desire... I feel bad about, he is been very understanding so I can't complain and I can see I am the problem. Our relationship is very at risk and I am thinking to see a doctor for hormone pills. Can I have any other point of view without judgement please 🙏🙏

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hey, this is a lot more common than you might think! is he active around the house and with the kiddos? does he show love and intimacy in other ways that have nothing to do with sex?

Completely normal girl I have a 5 YO and 11 week old and I’m the same so can’t imagine 2under2 for you xx

Judgment? I'm 8 months pp and I think the last time we were intimate was last year 🤣 no desire (or maybe yes a bit) but zero energy, I'm not sleeping and everything so, last of my problems and the moment and he is too and we have a kid only you have two so... I can totally understand. Speak with doctor if you need to but this is totally normal.

Feel this, took my husband and I 9 months of have sex again after our first baby was born…first time having sex I got pregnant again 😅 we’ve not had sex probably for over a year now. He’s been very understanding of it but I think my problem is that he doesn’t give me any emotional support and creates more work for me around the house (I feel like I’m cleaning up after 3 kids instead of 2) and that has made my sexual attraction to him decline and stay down. I’ve discussed this with him and he understood and has been trying to be better about those 2 things as of recent.

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