Start saying something in place of that.. make it fun or catchy “oh so silly!” “Oh no no no no no!” “Tutt tutt” “Oopsy daisy” replace it in both you and your husband’s vocab?
I haven’t got any direct experience (yet!) but one option is to totally ignore them saying it and don’t give them a reaction. Then after a few embarrassing days they’ll hopefully not think the word has any power anymore. You may end up having to apologise to nursery a few times and have some awkward encounters!
Thanks all
In time he should forget it maybe?