THIS MAN THREW A CUP OF WATER IN MY FACE
Soo there’s been tension all day , this guy just can’t seem to NOT want to argue! While we’re in the kitchen he’s in my proximity not giving me any space, screaming who I am and what I am and telling me to move! Not in a nice way either! I say No I’m sticking right here! I’m playing songs about being treated properly by a man. Out of no where this guy throws a cup of water into my face!! Of course my reflexes are great and my hand slapped him in the face! Now he’s all shocked like “ohh no you hit me”” well yeah you threw intentionally water in my face. He’s like Noo, you moved I didn’t know you were there, I was pouring the water into the sink! And im like yeah from 2 feet away?? How was the water supposed to reach the sink? On top of it , there’s two sides of the sink you could’ve went next to me and put water into the sink but apparently a whole splash of water ends up in my face! When you empty water from a cup wouldn’t you do it gracefully into the sink? Not two feet away!! How will the water land in the damn sink? And this was like literally someone throwing water, like I haven’t ever had someone do that that’s how I know it wasn’t by accident!! And he’s like ohh I’m gonna call the police, I’m gonna call your brother, I want you to leave!! Telling me to go in front of our son, and guess who repeats this? My son! I’m telling him so now you’re disrespecting me in front of our son! There’s a huge difference between throwing water that lands on your face vs water accidentally landing on you especially it would not land on your face! Like how high do you need to throw fucking water in a sink? AND WHERES THE CUP , Not even in the sink! Nahh he did it on purpose and trying to make it seem as if I’m the bad guy for sticking up for myself! The old me wouldn’t have reacted , the old me would’ve let it go and cry! NAh not the new me and not the true me! Tell me what y’all think!
Best thing to do is walk away from that toxic relationship. The respect is already lost and it will continue to happen over and over. I have been in that situation before. And you have a son teach him the right things. I have two boys and they saw me getting abused in the past and I told them the day they touch a woman in a harm way that’s the day they will stop being my son’s. Regardless of the situation they need to walk away.