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It's been 8 weeks pp and my husband hasn't initiated sex. I feel unwanted . Am I wrong to think that...
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No, have u made pass or anything towards him

He’s probably scared to try, which is considerate! 8 weeks tbh isn’t as healed as you think (but it’s your choice 😊) Let him know you feel ok to try.

Make a move mamas

Initiate yourself. He is probably giving you space, talk to him.

Drop some big hints. He needs to see a green light before he's ready to go! Grab his hand and have him touch you (in a flirty way, not a crotch grab). His reaction will tell you everything. He may be scared to get pregnant again so soon...

Consider yourself lucky, loved and respected

Have you spoke to him and let him know your ready?

My husband was so scared he was going to hurt me. I felt the same way, the first time we did it it was so awkward (like the first time again) but I promise it gets better with each time you do it! :)

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