Does it get better?

Can someone please share some positive experiences after any amount of years of turbulence with their partners BM? It feels like it’s getting worse and worse. I find myself asking how far will she go (because when you think of low it’s been lower). What I want to know is what does it actually take? How does it change where everyone just gets along, maybe even friends? Is that even an option? I just need a bit of hope that this amazing life with the man of my dreams does exists like I’m wanting it to 😭😭

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Personally it took years for us all to start getting along. I don't know why but there was a problem with me. I'd say probably took maybe 6/7 years or so and by that point she was with someone else too so maybe that was the resson why

I’ve been with my partner for 4 years and things are slowly getting better now.. by getting better she isn’t as toxic and volatile anymore she doesn’t really speak to us but she isn’t toxic on our time with SD and isn’t blocking it etc! On the flip side as a BM also I’m going away with my ex, my sons SM and their new son next year 🤣 so there’s hope out there because not all BM are toxic losers

No advice or hope but I feel you. I'm still here hoping and dreaming also, it's been 4 year now and still seems to be getting worse.

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