Introducing formula
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It’s not an “I’m against formula” I have intrusive in laws… I don’t want them to see it as an opportunity for them to just take him whenever suits them cos he’s on formula. They already do it with me breastfeeding and then just return him when they can’t settle him. Also I feel guilty as he’s just being a baby wanting comfort. But I’m so touched out by the end of the night I just pass out. There’s so much going on in my head 🤯
I don’t know that I can say anything about your in-laws as I don’t actually know your whole situation….but Never feel badly about knowing what your mental health needs. I’m breastfeeding too and I can’t stand when my husband tries to touch me while I’m doing it because I’m touched out. Formula is still providing for your baby… still nourishment and comfort and I’m sure a mommy that feels mentally stable is good for baby too. Please don’t feel guilty. Mom life is full of guilt real and perceived but trust me when I say giving yourself grace and self care is better for your baby than the guilt.
Omgoodness I feel you on the being touched while feeding 😵💫 . I thought was just me. Thank you so much for your kind words of advice. It’s crazy because if anyone came to me in a similar situation I’d advise them as you have. But for some reason I can’t advise myself 🤯
I get it! I need to hear it some times too! That’s why I’m thankful for Peanut. I deleted it after I had my daughter and just downloaded it again today because it’s good to know that other people are going through the same things negative and positive!
Why dont you want to give formula?