Cheating baby dad

I kicked my baby dad out tonight after finding out he had cheated on me again, but this time was telling the other girl he loved her and wishes she was pregnant over me, I’m weeks away from bringing our first child together in to this world and I feel so guilty for kicking him out and ending things, I honestly feel so heartbroken and numb I don’t know where to go from here, I know it may sound stupid/silly but I’m in two minds in one hand I need to protect my own peace and sanity and this baby’s but on the other hand I want that family unit for this baby so do I take him back for that?any advice on what to do or how to get through this?

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Protect your peace. That man can’t be the father your child needs. Find someone who can… though there are so few nowadays… best of luck to you, you are so strong

He literally said he wishes he was starting a family with her and not you… hold onto that and remember why the decision you’ve made is right. That perfect vision you have of a family unit unfortunately won’t be fulfilled by getting back with him. When baby’s here if he wants to co-parent then don’t stop him but other than that you are better off without. Give yourself some grace though your emotions are bound to be all over the place but I promise you, you’ve made the right decision🤍

It’s not family. You did the right thing for kicking him out! You don’t deserve this!

No way! He doesn’t deserve you girl !!! and I’m sorry for the 💩 he’s done to you and your unborn child ❤️‍🩹 if he’s telling his mistress all that 💩 he’s suppose to be saying to you 🚩. He sounds like he might have some narcissist traits, want the family unit but don’t actually care about their family he’s helped create 🔥 and when things get rough in the relationship, he’ll run to the new supply and love bomb them so much until they believe “they’re the one” and make all these quick future plans and then when she’s in too deep and want to live together, then he’ll discard you like nothing and go because he’ll be living somewhere new and in the honeymoon phase and then repeat the same behaviours 🤡. Don’t take him back easily, just focus on u and bubs and he’ll eventually realise he fu*ked up

Your mental health and sanity will affect your child also. Choose the best thing for you. If you take him back he’s most likely going to think, wow I can get away with doing this and she’ll take me back. I know how upset you must feel and I am so sorry that you’re going through this. Leave him and do not look back

I know how bad it hurts right now but in the future you’ll be glad you did it you’ll find someone that treats you like the queen you are don’t settle for any less

Just focus on yourself and your baby. Peace comes with leaving, I promise ♥️ Being with my ex made me go fucking nuts because he kept lying, cheating and drinking. Now that’s he’s gone, I can breathe. Don’t get me wrong, it’s hard. I cry all the time, mourning the loss of the love I thought I had and the family we had. But that’s part of healing. I’m pregnant right now too with his baby and we have a 2 year old together. Our babies don’t need to see us in pain or shown that this behavior is ok, they just need to be shown what true love is. We don’t need a partner to be able to show them that. They just need you. You are strong and capable and can do this. I believe in you.

HE SAID HE WISH SHE WAS PREGNANT INSTEAD OF YOU. If that’s not enough for you to get off that man then girl this app can’t help you reason your thoughts.

So sorry he’s done this to you, you and your baby are better off without him 😔 as sad as it is but the cheating is wrong but to then go and disrespect you even more by stating he wishes he started a family with someone else is just awful 😞

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