Is there a big topic you and your partner disagree on and CANNOT talk about?
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The proportion of women who lie about being raped
@Ella that’s a huge red flag lovely, especially if you have a daughter.
I honestly don't think so? I don't think I'd get far enough into a relationship with someone if we didn't agree on the 'big' topics. I can be very passionate about the things I believe in and the things that are important to me I talk about openly.
A woman shouldn’t have to budge on her stance on abortion.
We agree on all human rights issues or id not have married him.
I would probably agree with abortion being the topic for me & my husband as well.
He has changed a lot in fatherhood, he wasn't always like this. 😅
Ex husband was about kids. I wanted them and he didn’t. He kept telling me in the future. Dangling the carrot. 7 years later I ended it and met my fiancé now and fell pregnant with our daughter after 2 years. When your with the right one these things that were hard or a big issue are not even a thing! My fiancé now couldn’t wait to have kids and a family with me and was ready! You have to meet them where they are at!
Co parenting. On both our ends 🤦🏻♀️
Vasectomy
Gaslighting. His mother gaslit him as a child and he internalized a lot of phrases that he then used with me, not realizing they were negative in anyway. Took us a long time to iron out those issues but even now if the topic of gaslighting comes up we both get twitchy.
Differences on parenting style such as disciplining like setting boundaries and punishments,not physical ones. Our kids have SEN needs but I still believe in setting boundaries and consequences. My other half struggles so much with not caving in especially with our youngest and she knows how to twist him around her finger and he spoils her and it just ticks me off. It has caused quite a few disagreements and dischasions to be had as he thinks I'm too firm and I think he's too soft with them. Unfortunately we both have a last that affects how we both parent now. The thing is everyone see's how laid back and lenient he is and when they bring it up to me my natural reaction is to defend him even though I know deep down they're right as I've told him the exact same things.
Car seat safety 😣😭 It’s so irritating 😠
At this point immigration 😭😭😭😭 😂
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Ours is also abortion. My view on it has changed slightly but not 100% lol. And it’s not from his opinion it’s just from maturity and life experience. I used to be super anti abortion. I saw someone else mention it, but our parenting styles are also very different!
@Ciara I am still anti abortion, whereas my husband believes it is the woman's body, so the woman's choice.
Politics & religion. I’ve accepted we are all entitled to our different opinions..
Honestly I can’t think of anything
I don't think there is anything. For a while, the topic of a 2nd child was a sensitive one, but he changed his mind and we have two kids now (and are both in agreement we are done haha)
We talk about it but one of our “unsolvable” arguments is about guns in the house. I am 10000% against it and my husband sometimes wants one. We’ve had the fight many times and no one is willing to budge.
We disagree on economics. He thinks tax cuts for companies would help everyone because they can pay their employees better with the savings. I think too many companies are greedy and won’t do that. I think that we should start at the bottom when implementing tax cuts to try and help the people who aren’t earning a lot to begin with.
Monopoly
No, and if there is ever anything we disagree on , we talk about it explain our reasonings and move on
Are there things we disagree about? Yes of course. Are there things we can't talk about? No. Because we don't talk to each other with the intention of convincing the other person to change their mind. We talk to each other to UNDERSTAND each other.
@Neena that’s not to say that there aren’t women who do lie tho. Rape is a serious allegation and as much as we should always believe a woman, proof is needed from both sides to argue their case
His family lol
Same and public schooling