Boyfriends baby mama

I’m so tired of dealing with everything. My boyfriends baby mama called him last week asking to come over for a specific pair of pajamas for their daughters to wear to school the next day. When they very well have pajamas at her house. But she said it’s because the girls want the ones at daddy’s house. Then my boyfriend politely turned her down and told her I’m not at the house we’re going out right now. Oh and when they got off the phone she said, bye love you. He said he thinks she did it because she didn’t want to lose a pair of pajamas that were being sent over to our house because it was his turn with the girls the next day. Then, she showed up unannounced at my sons birthday party. Then shes calling him to get a pair of shoes for the girls. Then she’s showing up to the daughters gymnastics talking about me saying the girls said I’m mean to them and and call them fart heads. Now this week it’s about me again and another complaint. It’s a never ending cycle of non stop bullshit and I’m tired of it. Should I leave …

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She’s doing it so you can leave. Is he good enough to you to stay? Do you a real future with him? She’s gonna be a problem for him until he sets boundaries.

Girl. I’m gonna hold your hand when I tell you this… She ain’t over him, and he’s entertaining the idea. I’ve been in your shoes before, don’t let this destroy you. Tell your bf he etheir straighten this up or you’re out. He’s not being fair to you, and she’s fucking crazy 😂 She’s got this jealousy over you cuz u got her man so she’s gonna do whatever she has to . Anyways I hope you’re okay xox

@Kamille The funny thing is though she is supposedly remarried to another guy.

@Karly The funny thing is she is supposedly remarried to someone else

Your partner should be stepping up for you and putting her in her place. And if he isn’t doing that, then he is actively ALLOWING her to do this. Not ok.

My boyfriend’s bm was like this at the beginning. always wanted him at her apartment alone, wanted him to do things for her, calling him every day. he shut it down fast. he told her that he was no longer comfortable with the amount they talked about things other than the boys and he wasn’t comfortable going to her apartment alone anymore. she eventually found a temporary boyfriend to try and make mine jealous. he said “congrats! hope he’s good to you and the boys” and she hasn’t tried anything since 😂 however everytime her and a boyfriend break up she does try to start talking to him about the boys everyday but he barely even entertains that at this point

Doesn’t matter Women are strange! And there’s always gonna be jealousy! Idk I gotta decide if he’s worth the stress and hassle. And if u wanna stay make sure he’s able to change the way things are now cuz u can’t keep living this way. It’s not healthy! Trust me I’m speaking from experience

Honestly Is egging it on by being to nice and friendly to her and if it can't stop and he won't put an end to it . Then u need to take ur kids and leave him

I feel like him not fixing this is why I would leave! Because I can never be mad at people for trying it but you letting it slide not nippin that shit in the butt is why I would leave I don’t like people who can’t keep their people in check cause mine are fine lol

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