@Lennox do you still allow them to see your children? If you do how do you navigate that? I don’t want my kids alone with them ever especially bc he touches women inappropriately and I’m about to have another daughter
I think it’s completely reasonable for him to not see the kids. It’s your job to protect your kids! Blood does not mean they are owed anything. Just because they’re related to you, they do not automatically have to see the kids. If you don’t like them and don’t want see them, that’s totally your call!
We are no contact with my in-laws. My MIL is an absolute monster so she will never be around me nor my children ever and there’s no changing that after the things she’s done. I always tell my husband that he can speak to them or see them whenever but never at the house or around us and he has yet to actually want anything to do with them and doesn’t want them around us either
We went no contact with my FIL for a while, slowly allowed him back to the bare minimum after a few months. He's an alcoholic and likes to randomly flip out on us for working so much, not raising our kids, ruining his property by helping with maintenance, trying to run him off his land because we fixed stuff for him and he feels threatened 🙄
I absolutely do not.
I went no contact with my mil. And I meant it. She did nothing but bad mouth me and try to stir up drama and I said enough was enough. My fil is two faced but he’s more tolerable.