Hardest thing I ever had to do 😭
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I wish I could hug you! It’s going to get a lot harder before it gets easier I have been there and it’s torture. Somehow we get through it, we find something out of everyday to be grateful for even with tears in our eyes and an aching heart. One day the tears stop and your heart stops aching and life will be as it should. Far from perfect but much better
@Gabriella thank you, it is the worst feeling ever. When you just want to hug someone and you can’t. He wanted to work things out, but this is the second time that he cheated, I forgave him one year ago and now it happened again. It is destroying me mentally and I want to be good for my baby, that is why I decided to end things with him, because sooner or later he will do the same 😔 It is so hard, but I think it is for better. Thank you for your words, it really means a lot at this moment ♥️
Awh I’m so sorry hun. Yes your doing the best thing staying away !!sooner or later he will see what his lost out ! And you will be the best mummy for your baby . And it’s good to cry let it out those tears will soon turn into happy tears ❤️ Please, if you ever need anyone to talk to give me a message
@Coco it is because of my baby too. I didn’t want life like this for her, I wanted her to have family. I wanted her to have parents that love each other, I wanted her to grow in other circumstances. And when I think about holidays that I wanted for 3 of us, it just breaks my heart. I feel so weak and want to call him to come back, but I can’t, I need to be strong this time, otherwise he will do it again and I don’t know how would I survive that. Thank you ♥️
@Gabriella thank you so much ♥️
Leaving is the most rewarding path you can take. Your child deserves a household where their mother is loved and supported. Where you can be emotionally available with your baby, because you aren't worried about who's supposed to love is screwing you over. Don't hold your breathe for a man that can't see your worth. There's a future beyond him, one far brighter. Now that you've made the decision, you get to choose a life full or genuine care and love. No one can take away your choice.
@Alexandra thank you. I agree, especially on the part where you said that I should be emotionally available for my baby, and I would never be that with him by my side, I would always think about where he is and what is he doing and always feel anxious . I am glad I wrote here last night, as I was feeling so weak but I feel empowered after all of your comments here ♥️
Hey mama! I’m so sorry your going through this it must be so hard! Please keep strong! And also How does he feel about you feeling like this? Does he want to work things out with you?