Guys please look at this and tell me I'm gonna be ok..

He can't really do anything. The court will see it as you doing better for the kid and then see his outburst over something so small

Thank you. I'm kind of scare right now because he's demanding to come over and see the baby and saying me not letting him is going to look so bad for me to the court

Save all the messages and only communicate in a way you’d be fine with a judge reading (respectful, businesslike etc) and you’ll be fine legally. It might be worth calling the police to have on record (and for safety if you don’t have anyone with you and are scared… things can escalate quickly)

Honestly keep everything text message or voicemail he sends u cause he's basically threatening you and ur child's life and with the way he's actually the judge will give u full legal and physical custody and he only gets visitation

Keep everything in text or email. Don’t communicate in call. Or if you do call. Record the call. If you’re in pa. You can record a call without informing the other party. If you’re not. Look up the laws and or just tell him you are recording the call. Courts will go in your favor. You are getting a child there own room. There’s nothing wrong with that. They actually love kids having their own space. He seems unstable and very emotionally immature. If he comes over. And you do feel unsafe and or bursts into the house. Call the police. Having that as a record for a court date will help you in your favor as well. I would go for 100% custody. Clearly he doesn’t do anything for the baby. And he has outbursts. You can take it or leave it for child support. But that’s a whole other story and case.

He needs to grow up

If he's that bothered about seeing his child what is a 15 minutes away? It is nothing, he sounds like a lazy, control freak to me but he can do literally nothing about this, you are moving for your child's best interests long term, he's just being ridiculous, it's not like youre leaving the country, the child is still accessible, needs to grow up blummim man child

Bless you for being … better than me cause BABBYYYYYYYYYYYYY … you have the patience of a Saint.. continue to stand on ten toes and makes the best moves for you and your child .. and record everything keep everything and keep it PG! shame on him for not wanting his family to elevate to bigger and better .. and congratulations to you for putting your best foot forward !

Damn what a tantrum over 15 mins travel time

@Jay thank you I was excited about the move but I knew telling him would result in this mess. Only reason I told him is because I felt like it was the right thing to give warning and be able to set up a plan for visits

@Rhiannon I agree. And it's still going..

@katherine yes it is exactly about control

Yea I need to go through and screenshot everything but also he's making up lies now in his texts to try to make it look bad for me so idk what to do. I haven't said anything much back and I refused a phone call. Can't wait for this storm to pass 😩 He gives me so much anxiety

I would of done moved then told his dumb ass. He can't do shit and it bothers him.. is bd on b.c by chance. Either way keep doing you ,you're only doing what's best for baby. And BTW baby should have his own room. Let him continue to flip out the judge will see his true colors

@Magen I hope the judge does fr. He's a master lier. Has a way of getting people to feel sorry for him. He's not on the b.c. Today he took my package from the mailbox to "keep it safe" and continues to demand i let him see baby. Wish I would have waited I just didn't wanna look sneaky if he does do court stuff

A) He's so overreacting and of course you want to give baby their own room. B) You are under no obligation to let him see his baby on demand. If he wants to see his baby he can arrange a time in advance like everyone else. Rather than respond "no" I'd respond with an option for a suitable time. This will not look bad in court, it is basic life planning.

Legally he can’t take your package and hold it. You can call the police. It is a felony to steal someone package/mail. Regardless of “keeping it safe” or whatever reason he wants to put behind it. He stole it. Point blank. Call police and tell them he stole your mail.

More against him for court if you call and report this.

Never tell anyone your moves until you’ve gotten there already.. that’s rule number one.. you move in silence.. idc if it’s your best friend from when you were 2.. move in silence.. because envy is real and it can come from anyone…