No advice just solidarity. My son has a 10 pm, sometimes later, bedtime as well. We used to wake him up from his nap if it was going past 2 hours, so you could try that? But he pretty much needs to be awake for at least 6 hours after his nap ends before he'll actually fall asleep at bedtime.
@Saiah I’ve tried that also sometimes it works sometimes it doesn’t maybe I’ll try waking her earlier in the morning again 😂
Gummy kids melatonin!