Need to rant to someone
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This mumma is fully fed up I only have one friend and yes she has been there for me a lot over the last 10 years not so much the last 7 tho but my lord she has always been “if you need anything give me a yell and I’ll help” but as soon as I do it’s always a no I am tired of her always using her arthritis as an excuse and she sleeps all day so I can’t even see her I only ever text her, I have osteoarthritis in my spine two slip disks my nerves are getting crushed plus I have have arthritis in my hips the plentafacia in both my feet are stuffed I also suffer severe chronic migraines I’m vitamin D deficient and iron deficient as well yet I always get up stay awake all day to do crap that needs to be done I took her son to school for two weeks straight and all I asked was if she could take just my daughter to school tomorrow (she had today off because of the pain im in) because of all the pain I’m in and it was no I can’t Because I’m in pain and why can’t you do it
But I’m always there to help no matter how much pain im in or anything I’m always there I feel like I’m not really anything to her but she is all I’ve got I have no one else. I know I’m probs in the wrong but I just needed to rant
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Everyone handles pain differently but it sounds like maybe the friendship is over It’s just convenience at this point Have u told her how u feel? I’d cut ties if you’re feeling this way
She sounds depressed and like she hasn’t had anyone show her how to press on while in pain, and that that has better results often times than just sitting around constantly. :( Is she on medications?
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I have chronic illnesses for the past 15 years and so does my sister. My sister will stay in bed for weeks and have pity parties about being sick. I’m constantly doing stuff. The weather has changed with it getting colder and that usually increases pain- take that into consideration. I think you need to stop doing as much for her. Slowly stop saying yes. Listen carefully to your guys conversations. Is this person always complaining or are they helping themselves? Second, you need to make some new friends.