I’m so upset

This is the second time that my wife has gone to a work event and came home super late drunk, since my baby was born. The first time she did it, my baby was 5 months. Now she’s 18 months. She promised me that she would be more responsible. She apologized but I’m still so upset. I don’t know what to do. How can she be so irresponsible!

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Nothing to be done. Personally I think you are overreacting. Two times in 18 months your wife gets drunk. Yes you have a child but maybe she needs to let off some steam too. If it’s every week it would be understandable but you are talking 13 months since the last time it happened. I think most people are entitled to a big night at least once a year when they have children

I don’t think you are overreacting. If this is something you agreed upon then it should be respected.

I’m upset because she promised she was only going to have 1 drink and be home early. She was 2 hrs late and got so drunk that she had to sit in a parking lot to sober up. How irresponsible is that!

I think she was more irresponsible to drive drunk 😳 other than that 2 hours isn’t too bad, she’s a grown adult and knew her baby was safe with her dad while she was out having a good time catch her some slack

What are you upset about? That she is getting drunk at a work event? Or that she is going out while you can’t? I would try to figure out what is it that is actually bothering you and go from there. My husband has work events every now then, while he doesn’t show up shit faded I do understand is a work thing and I mean everyone drinks at this things? I encourage him to go just ask for the same in return

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