In laws drama

I am sick to death with my in laws. Everytime I take my baby to their house which is once a week someone always has something to say. If it's not the grandma saying things like "I know him and why he's crying" how does she know my child better than me? She doesn't! She tries to undermine me . It's almost as if she thinks she is my child's mother honestly. She does it whenever my husband isn't there to piss me off. She'll say things like "oh you didn't bring him for a whole week" but at the same time nobody bothers to come and see my baby at my place I live 2 roads down from my partners family. She calls my son by his first name and then her family surname which isn't his name. My son has his dad's first name as his surname. I have told her politely this isn't his name but she continues to call my son by her own family surname. I do not want my son growing up confused as to what his own name is because this old hag says things to piss me off . I really fucking hate her. When I go to her house she will hog onto my son, if I want him for five minutes I have to practically beg for him back to just cuddle him. I'm so sick of it

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Get your husband to have a word. This would piss me off big time.

Why does he have his father's first name as his last name & not his last name 🤔 that is very confusing

@Rachel im not sure about OP’s culture but in my husbands culture this is the norm, he’s Pakistani, his dads first name is his surname

@Rachel in the Pakistani culture the child is given his fathers first name as surname this is the norm

@Aleena I've spoken to my husband and he's said he's never heard her do this but he will speak to her the next time he hears her do it. I Just feel like if he randomly brings it up she will know I've told him about it and be a bigger bitch. This is what she's like

Yeah I get you, hopefully she does so that he can say something

@Aleena I know I sound ridiculous but she is a very calculated old Lady she knows what she's saying when she's making snidey comments and I'm in the room and when to make them as my husbands never in the room when she does. One time she was sat in the room and said to someone else in the room at the end of the day you will always recognise your blood family no matter how far someone tries to take or keep you from them - indirecting at me as my son wasn't at her house for over a week that time. Ugh she's a right little bitch

she sounds a proper treat lol. If your husband speaks to her and she continues I would just only turn up on special occasions lol

@Aleena this is what I'm going to start doing but my in laws have a fucking occasion everytime someone farts. So jaaring honestly

Accurate 😭

@Aleena tell me I'm overthinking but I got a mini cake when my son turned 5 months and this was on the same day as my own birthday. I stood with my son and his cake at my in laws and as I picked up the knife to cut his cake with him everyone was taking pics of us - my husbands grandma walked upto my son took the knife out my hand and cut his 5 month cake with him while I stood there/ I was gobsmacked and so angry she done this. Her daughter saw my face and moved her from the stage but I was so angry she did this . Who the fck gave her the right to stand there take the knife and take my moment with my son by cutting the cake when everyone else was sat down waiting for me and my son to cut his cake. I'm honestly so upset

Some people are so entitled honestly. They need to realise he’s YOUR son and wait in line for shit like that. What a joke.

Stop going round, wanna see the baby pop round I’ll be home on this day at this time. If you can’t make it that’s not my problem.

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