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I already packed n left with kids. I wanna divorce but my parents said sit n wait.
There's no "sitting and waiting" on this. If he disrespected you like that, then it's a done deal. He said you're shit and he doesn't love you, they don't have a say in the matter. You deserve better. You deserve to be treated better than that.
I’m so sorry you went through that. I honestly would leave because if you’re gonna tell me that and not care about my feelings, that means you really don’t care about me maybe you getting up and leaving will knock some sense into him if you have family that you can go to I would go to them stay with them for a while until I find a job, and trust me that will make you feel a lot better than sitting with him having him treat you like that he is disrespectful
@Crystal thats what i did. My boys were sleeping i went out gave call to mom she said come here n sleep then got call from my Bro in law that even if u dont wanna talk to him just go home n take kids as he has to go to work. Thats what i did. Now sitting here thinking what to do. I wanna work but 2 boys have nobody who can carefor them. My mom is not strong enough to handle both. They are too much, i mean too hard for her to handle. Idk what work to do, course in beauty? Like salon? Or maid job, cleaning houses twice a week? Suggestions??
How old are your boys? Do you & your husband own your home? How long have you been married?
Listen to this podcast! It gave language to what I was going through and what I can do and how to deal with an abusive partner! https://open.spotify.com/episode/7aP4DKv0KAA010D6G4ga8n?si=6a102xZeRceVdbG6fL_w6A&t=4329
@Dana Lew 3 years and 6 month old. We live in rent apartments
Once he said those words, I'd pack my bags, the kids bags and leave. Hand divorce papers