Weird or no?

I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ I mean why do you want to see it? And I guess if he hasn’t got anything to hide he would let you.

@Nire85 I want to see it because he won’t let me. Not because I want to go thru his phone he just hides it when I walk by. Turns his phone or his body position to where I can’t look. Like he has something on there he doesn’t want anyone to see. It’s like when you go somewhere and tell your friend “don’t look, but…then your friend turns to look. It’s a normal human reaction to wonder what he doesn’t want me to see.

Yeah it’s a red flag to me. If he had nothing to hide and never say anything you wouldn’t have even cared to look- so curiosity would be killing me if I were you!

Yeah ok I get what you’re saying. Why won’t he let you see? Like what does he say to you?

@Nire85 he says it’s his privacy that I can check anything else besides his game. I don’t need to check anything he’s just saying I can check but I think it’s weird he won’t let me see that specific chat. If I was to go ask him to see it right now he would tell me no. Like he would tell me to leave because he gets so mad and doesn’t want me to see.

@Nire85 first thing I thought lol what made you wanna go through it?

I’m not actively trying to go thru the dudes phone. I just want to see what he said I can’t see. That’s it. Not trying to invade privacy just curious at this point. Sorry if this got confusing.

That’s strange behavior!! I’ve never been in this position so I can’t offer good advice. I guess if that was my husband I would feel something feels off. What do you feel like doing? How old are your kids? Does he play the game alot? I mean if he’s playing a game and “chatting” to people and won’t involve you or even just show you so you would relax and not feel weird about it.

It’s a hard one because privacy is important in relationships etc and you should def feel like you can trust your significant other. I wouldn’t ask hubby to go through he’s phone etc but in the past he would leave he’s phone laying around and whenever it went off he would sometimes ask me to see who it is or even answer he’s phone 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Well honestly i understand to an extent. But my boyfriend tells me “dont ever open this chat because theres a lot of d pictures” and so i dont open it nor would i ever want to because its a groupchat of all his boy cousins & friends and they’re just weird like that. So if he has a valid reason then id respect it but if it was just “because i dont want you to” id be like okay but why not ? 🤔 so i guess just depends the situation behind the chat

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If none of it mattered why would you looking make a difference, so yeah it’s weird.

@Parker 又 how do you know it wouldn’t matter? I want to see because it’s a mystery. If it’s something screwed up I will leave him. Maybe I will leave him until he shows me. That seems to work most of the time. If he don’t, that’s his loss.