Is this girl messing with my friend??

As my kids would say, this sounds sus. At a minimum.

Her last period was October 8th and they had sex the 2nd of November?

@Sam also this… the math isn’t mathing. 🤔 With this LO I got AF 9/6, ovulation was the week of 9/15-9/21, 99% sure it was the 20/21st that I got pregnant, (baby measured exact to my LMP and ovulation notes at scan) and BFP by October 7 at 4w3d. Her ovulation would have had to be over 3+ weeks later. Not impossible but highly improbable. Unless she has some seriously long cycles. At 20? Again, very sus.

@Sam sounds like it's not his, she slept with someone else and then him and is claiming it's the med student's baby. If she is paternity test for sure...

Sounds like utter bollocks. So unlikely to get a faint positive 12 days after conception never mind a bold one. I'm English so can't comment on the appointment time but it seems very soon also.

HE’S NOT THE DADDY!

Medically, you won’t even get a positive line with a urine HCG pregnancy test after just two weeks of intercourse, if she got one Nov 14th, has to be from a previous sex with another guy, not one from your friend. It’s that simple…

I've always found out im pregnant at 2/3 weeks So it's very possible.. when you know your body you know.. took pregnancy test and got faint lines for sure I never want to negate a women I definitely don't know any women that pretend to be pregnant to keep a man But where the math isn't adding up (my children were planned) If last period is oct 8th she should have been ovulating around oct22nd He period shoulda been coming around November 6th . That's if everything w her reproductive system is "normal" But you never know anything is possible.. she could have a different type of cycle

@oshanique that's a very faint line though to be fair, by two weeks some hcg will be present but I'm almost certain 12 days not enough time to get a strong positive, there wouldn't be enough hcg present

@oshanique I do get what you're saying in regards to negating women, I'm a girls girl first and foremost, but women can still be arseholes and the story sounds very suspicious. By all means give her the benefit of the doubt and a chance to prove herself but it sounds as though OPs friend is trying to do that and she's not giving him anything. It's a huge responsibility for just taking someone's word for it.

@Chloe unfortunately he kinda has to take her word until the truth comes out .. the dates don't make sense because of how the period cycle works .. but everyone isn't the same so idk & Yes very faint .. never the less it's there and it wasn't a false positive .. the child is here and the same thing happen w my second child .. so it's possible we don't know her body and what it can produce .. I have a cousin, at the beginning of all her pregnancies she misses her period.. takes a test and all the pregnancy test come out negative my cousin always has to get her blood drawn to prove she's pregnant.. the pee test doesn't work for until she's further down the line .. vs me that can get a positive test asap.. I'm not saying she's telling the truth, I'm not saying she's lying I'm saying.. I'm saying getting a positive test shortly after sex is possible..

She could test positive by then so that’s believable. Maybe she’s trying to phase him out or isn’t keeping it.

Ladies the update is here! SHE WAS LYING

I KNEW IT 😆🥹😩 the math just didn’t math!

I said HE’S NOT THE DADDY, didn’t I 🤷‍♀️

That’s what I was telling my friend too, that even if she is pregnant he’s probably not the dad! But nope! She was lying af! I had a feeling that she was lying cuz the mathin was not mathing to me either. The biggest red flag to me was the fact that she didn’t have a single picture nor did she even try sending him a photo

Yeahhhhh dead giveaway because I have photos of even my negative tests! Definitely took photos of the BFPs

Exactly cos why wouldn’t be willing and able to show your supposed baby daddy pictures/evidence of a +ve test

*you