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@Ashley I really appreciate you sharing your experience and advice. I feel a little more seen and heard without unnecessary judgements. Thank you and I hope your situation gets better❤️
Look, I considered getting one with my baby because of relationship complications, but honestly I just couldn’t do it. I wasn’t excited at all I was scared during my pregnancy. I’d say don’t traumatize yourself with an abortion and just leave that man forever. Organizations like let them live on Instagram can help you financially with your baby. That baby will bring you so much love like your other baby. Feel free to message me. I won’t judge you, but we can talk about how I went through it. You can vent and I will not call you out on anything. If you don’t feel like you want to have the baby I won’t cuss you out or anything, but I will support you emotionally if you do decide you want to keep the baby. The baby may not fix your relationship, but that life may add a little more life to yours.
I don't think I could have a baby knowing that the relationship is likely to fall apart, as being a single parent is HARD. But it's up to you
Honestly make the best decision for you me and my dude wasnt on good terms and i decided to go through with it but honestly now that ive made it this far i wouldnt sacrfice my body for someone you arent sure about please don't do that to yourself .
Two key things you mentioned. One, you don't mind having another child. Two, you will be able to provide financial. Please don't let the uncertainty that your relationship brings dictate you aborting your child. As for your relationship, I pray that it will be able to work. Have you spoken to your partner about the doubts you're having?
Bringing a human into this world on the basis of fixing a broken relationship is very rocky… I don’t doubt you would care, love and raise a healthy child - but as you said, raising a child in an unstable environment is not fair. You’re only 7 weeks, which is crazy early - if you’re considering an abortion, getting one sooner rather than later would be my advice! I would start by talking with your partner - but whatever you do, make the right choice for you and follow your gut instinct!
Whatever you decide, it will be the right decision because you’ve carefully considered it and not acted out of impulse. Consider your options carefully, consider the repercussions carefully, and make the most informed decision for you and the baby you already have. Abortion is never wrong if it’s done for the right reasons imo💗
Does he take care of the first one y’all have
Keep the child even if it’s scary even if it’s hard, the baby is yours and will bring so much joy and love. He/she is already forming inside your womb ❤️
Coming from someone who has had 3 children with 2 different men that were NOT "the 1" .....I would get the abortion. I got pregnant this year and had a miscarriage and I was so happy I did. Coming from me, I NEVER thought I'd be happy about something like that, but the thought of having a baby without knowing if they're the right person for me..... Aw, man, I was terrified. It's too much stress. Too much work. I wasted 9 years on 2 men! No....just no. It doesn't work in the long run. Like my aunt says, "Children don't fix anything, go to a therapist, learn what attracts you to these red flags, learn to love yourself, set your standards, and go find yourself your lifelong best friend."