How to make husband value me?
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Im sorry but you cant. And if you have to beg for a man to value you its time to leave.
The last 2 sentences are the most worrysome. I think honest reflection and conversation is needed with in, and then with your husband. Rather than the questioning how to make your husband value me, I think you've got to ask youself a few other questions. Ultumatley, we cannot make somrone value us, thats outside our contol. Whats in our control is how we learn to value ourselves. Ask yourself in the utmost honest way, what are my values? Which personal values do/do not allign in your relationship? How does his words/ actions impact yourspitit, self-love snd overall well-being? Please reach out for support from professionals, friends and loves ones, recieving support is an act of courage 988 call/ text sucide prevention line. Wishing you the best and safest outcome Mama💕
Sometimes, you only appreciate something after it's gone. If he's going to be throwing divorce around, maybe a trial separation would give you both some clarity as to what that might look and feel like. He can at least see that his household tasks and parenting obligations don't disappear when you're not there to ask or remind him.
Thank you everyone for all the replies, really appreciate it!
Next time he mentions divorce just say okay sure and walk away.
I agree with sab. My ex was trying ti hurt me when he said "if you choose your family its over between us" when i said ok fine it was like i lost 210 LBS that is didnt know i had on my shoulders
Never beg a man to value you, he either does or he doesn’t. If he actually cares about you, he will try to make the changes you’d like to see (providing they’re reasonable) sometimes the relationship issues can’t be resolved and it is better to split ways, especially if he’s not willing to improve. See if he’ll consider couples therapy, sorry you’re stuck with a crappy husband :( Remember you don’t have to put up with this, be strong!