Smh

It is truly hard trying to find a good friend/ bestie/ sisterhood. Wish it was easy like it was in high school. I just don't understand. It's like pple don't put in the effort anymore
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I know the feeling 😔 We can be friends if you up for it … 🥰

Exactly

I understand that, message me I’m always looking for new friends!

If yea down for it.. we can make a group chat! We can all be friends !! 🥰

Right, I’m not sure what it is anymore. It’s just hard to connect with folks. Or it feels like you can’t reach the bestie level with some people because they already have a bff or they just don’t put the effort in.

They are almost instinct like dinosaurs 🤣🤣🤣 everyone claims to be looking for the same thing In return they are just doing the opposite, I’m here she’s me👋🏾

@Kay loved this comment so much 🤣😭

@Lillian is proven with facts.. I thought this app was for WOMEN MOMS who want to interact rather in person snap or via text NOPE just ppl venting about how they want a friend but is not a true friend themselves.. I got 7 PHONE NUMBERS in a week texting first and I’m always reaching out first😩 but I didn’t ask for the number so why did they offer it🤔🤣🤣

@Lillian what kind have you met if any?

@Kay yesssss and it's so draining

@Kay yes exactly! And I hate when have to text them first but they will text later like you wasn’t the last person to text lol

And I even got blocked by one close to my house all bc I said we should have a girls day and go see a movie I was like wtf I wasn’t asking her out

@Brittany I just laugh🤣 cause maybe it was a sign we wasn’t going to be compatible anyway🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️👍🏾

@Lillian not a date she assume!! 🤣🤣 she doesn’t know a nice gesture when she’s presented one, I’ll take the date girl and I pay for my self just to have a table with 2+ plus then me and my LO 🤣🤣 I treat my self to brunch at least 1x a week and be talking to my baby🤣🤣unless some nice person make small talk

@Kay yes I wish friendships were like how they use to be in high school but they fade away sadly like my friend group was 3 and then they called eachother wife and stuff so I wasn’t as close so I drifted away and then my one friend told me I should abort my fifth child which was my first boy my blessing each one means the world to me

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@Lillian hopefully that’s still possible, most ppl are here for a season so as the season changes you get a fresh spring, summer, fall,winter, start in a sense new good ppl🤞🏾you are truly lucky to still have friends from past especially if your lives are not the same but that’s ok make room for new ppl if you can

Yes but my childhood friends gone I had one I knew since she was born she only message me to complain or borrow money sadly

I agree, unfortunately unlike high-school we can't just hang out and do whatever comes up, too many responsibilities now..but I want to put in the effort and make that bestie an active part of my life and their family too!

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