Not baby related- cohabitating with waiting for therapist appointment

This isn’t really baby related but I’m STRUGGLING with my partner. For multiple reasons. We are hanging by a thread- haven’t hugged in like three weeks. He went out of town for 5 days and left me incredibly angry and then he left for another 3 days because I needed space because I was so angry. I’ve spoken with a lawyer and I know my rights as we are ‘domestic partners’ (it’s the same as being married) so I know my rights and know what I need to do if I want to leave him and take the baby. However he came back yesterday and said he will go to therapy. I don’t have an intake appointment for another week and then who knows when our couples counseling appointment will take to book. He slept in the living room last night. Has anyone been through anything similar? I feel very very hopeless and like it’s going to be a waste of time- he’s SO stubborn and hard headed. I can’t be with someone who can’t understand my feelings. But how the hell am I supposed to live with him during this time while we wait for our appointment? Advice? Similar situations? Positive experiences? Thanks ladies.