Ranting

So I went out to an event with my sister no drinking nothing just went somewhere for a couple hrs to get out the house without the kids and my husband is getting mad at me that I went out. I haven’t been out the house by myself without them since before I gave birth and he talking about priorities that I should go out for once. He never lets me do anything I’m always the one that’s home with them unless I go to the store for a few and he’s already home to watch them and talking about he should have to come home from working being exhausted to watch they them and all he’s worried about is me getting a job like I got someone to watch my kids I mean do but they’ll only watch them for a certain amount of time

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There’s no reason for him to get mad 🤨 set YOUR boundaries bc he does not control you

He doesn’t own you and you don’t need permission or be “allowed” to go anywhere. He needs to get out his feelings I understand working all day but hello this is reality when you have kids. That’s what we do, being a parent doesn’t stop regardless of you work or not.

@Coco yess I told him that he doesn’t understand that I’m the one that went through labor not him he thinks being a sahm is easy

Being a parent means you watch your kid even when you’re exhausted from work. Being a parent means you don’t get time off really. Every parent is expected to watch their kids. So he needs to be watching them more it sounds like. He needs to watch them every day after work for at least a half hour so you can shower and relax after taking care of them all day. And you need your time away like you did by going to a wedding. Everyone needs a little time away so we don’t loose our minds. Taking care of children is hard!

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