Realistic chores for a six year old?

So I asked my son a few minutes ago to shut the kitchen light off. It’s his responsibility when he’s done eating supper. He usually doesn’t do it which doesn’t truly bother me until today. He’s had an attitude all day and went stomping upstairs cause I asked him to stop scraping his fork on his dad’s water bottle while he was eating and it pissed him off. I said hey dude you forgot the kitchen light, please shut that off it’s your responsibility. I’m trying to teach him that even the small things need to be done, get him to understand what even the smallest responsibility is. Well he turns around and yells at me. Literally yells (and his dad was asleep so woke him up) “why do I have to shut the light off every night? I do everything around here!!!!” Okay bro. You don’t clean your own room, I do. You don’t make your own bed, I do. You don’t clean up after yourself at all because I go do it. You don’t do much of anything for yourself unless I do 90% of it FOR YOU. He has literally NO other responsibilities aside from this one small thing and homework at night. That’s IT. I do everything else for him, including brushing his teeth most days and nights or he will lie to me and claim he did it but didn’t. So since he wants to be disrespectful as hell and yell at me, I think he’s old enough to have chores so he will see what actually doing something is like. Hubby said no dishes (because we have to make sure EVERYTHING is extra extra clean my daughter was just sick a month ago, almost died, and with her blood disorder she’s extra susceptible to sickness right now. So everything gets scalding hot water and thorough and I mean THOROUGH cleaning.) but truth be told, my initial thought was damn ok go scrub the toilet then?! 🤣 boy had me HEATED but I just calmly said “Go to your room, and think about how you just talked to me.” What do yall think are age appropriate chores for him? I obviously won’t make him clean the toilet lol (tempting to teach him a lesson though). Obviously cleaning his own room, making his own bed? Which I’ll probably still have to do because he won’t do it decently but it’s worth a shot. Give me some ideas, I want him to have maybe 5 small chores a day max. Not sure it’ll last because he will whine his way out of it or flat out refuse to do it (we’ve been working on some behavior issues. His Dr won’t get him referred for adhd testing but I think that’s the majority of the issue. He is doing better in school just not at home… only toward me though. He’s great for his dad.) but it’s still worth it to teach him that he cannot scream at me like that when I’m the one that does literally everything for him so he doesn’t have to. My mom made me clean the entire house including her room and bathroom growing up, so I’ve tried to be the opposite.. clearly that’s not working. So somethings gotta give.
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Sweeping the kitchen. Get a short broom or break a long one and tape the end so it's good length for him. Have him separate laundry after its washed. Fluff the couch pillows and wiping/dusting (windows, end tables, coffee table, kitchen counters, mirrors). Put away the dishes after they've dried from washing. Putting new trash bags in after dad/mom throws it out.

Only lights ha 🤣 with that attitude Nah I make him do more Make his bed, if cat clean cat litter if dog he taken the dog out an in fold laundry sort laundry do his own vacuum dust sweep wipe tables clean (least B4 bed) take trash out an replace the bag Clean the toilet an clean inside of BR sink also anything to help u around the house

Maaaaan my grandma had us doing baseboards, cleaning bathrooms alls sorts of stuff at that age

@Harlie with his fucking attitude I want to do the damn same. Hell just now he threw a huge fit. So earlier we took out air conditioners upstairs in our oldest daughter’s room and started moving his stuff in there because they’re only here every other weekend since they’re with their mom most of the time, and apparently taking the air conditioner out invited a bat in. Cause I was hanging out just waiting for his shower time and all the sudden he is SCREAMING that there’s a bat in the house. So got that taken care of and he then refused to sleep upstairs. I finally gave in I said ok fine whatever but you will ABSOLUTELY NOT be sleeping in my bed. Ten minutes later he goes in and lays on my bed anyways. And since he passed out so fast my husbands like just leave him be babe. Well he was sleeping on my side of the bed, so I asked him to move. Like ten times. He just kept smacking at me and yanking the blanket over his head. So I finally pick him up and gently toss him to the other side

@Harlie and the way he acted you’d swear I killed him. Scream crying, throwing himself around. Like damn dude fucking take a chill pill I told you not to sleep in my bed but especially not on my side. Move the fuck over, make room for your sister, quit being a butthole. He’s back asleep now but MANNNNNNN he pisses me off sometimes.

@Katie read these ideas to my husband and he heard and in the worst whiny voice ever “nooooooooooo mom I’m not doing thoooooooose.” You’ll do what your told dude something has to change

Lmaooo 😂😂washing the dishes, cleaning the table, setting the table, cleaning the counters and folding his own clothes. Obv he might not do them all correctly you can fix it after he’s done but it helps w giving him something to do to show him you do a lot as well. Also giving them chores isn’t just a punishment it’s giving them responsibilities. My mom had us doing chores as well it wasn’t an overwhelming amount but cleaning the counters setting the table helping with dishes and we would all take turns (starting at age 5 or 6)

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