Should I Leave Or Stay ??

Leave now! .... Think about it even if he were to change tomorrow the relationship is already tainted. You think you'll ever believe this man has your back? No! You will forever wonder what he's up to and if you call him out how pissed and how big of a fight its going to be.

Leave. That is not a good or respectful relationship and you can help yourself and your children by leaving.

If you were married then maybe O would say stay and actively do something to change this Big Boy behavior. Telling yourself to stay for a child that isnt born yet is a mental excuse not to go through the fear of a break up or being a lone. Girl the break up is going to hurt. It will not be easy! This child isn't a 5year old that might witness a divorce. You can leave now and make it a normal thing for baby to see mom's side of the family and then Daddys. But honestly your hormones might be up the wall and it's an un natural feeling rn to even be alone so your feelings are going to fight you

Everything they say when mad they mean remember that otherwise they wouldn’t of said it in the first place just to add on never ever stay with a man for a babies sake it’s will mentally destroy your life and not only that this to me sounds like a truma bond xx

I hope you just throw all your energy and efforts into your new baby coming into your life. I don't know the guy fully but will he even let you enjoy being a new mom or will it be a constant attention battle. Take ur baby, take on a new life and keep yourself busy and enveloped in your baby.

You should have left him when he cheated. He's going to be an awful dad, just like he's an awful partner. If I was you, if you keep the baby don't put his name on the birth certificate etc. You'll be better off with him far away from you both

Sounds like you should leave for a better life for yourself and baby

Honestly if it’s like that now and you’re thinking that now just think what it’s going to be like when babies here. Tired stressed and you will take it out on eachother. Don’t settle for disrespect especially when you’re carrying his baby.

Either tell him. And tell him he needs to change his ways or you’re leaving. Or just leave

I hope you and baby are okay ❤️

Thank you all, I think I already knew what I needed to do. Helps hearing from you all 🤞

Would you want your child to stay with a partner that treats them this way? If you stay for your child, you teach them to stay too. Sure, people can change, we grow and learn… sometimes better and others worse. People only change when they want to because it’s hard work. Years of life have molded them into who they are. While no one is perfect, if someone isn’t working on themselves consistently then of course leave. Having a healthy relationship is good for you and your child and that doesn’t need to be with their other parent. Your child will be watching you both and they notice more than you think. Remember, actions speak louder than words and he is showing what he really thinks of you. What he’s doing is manipulating you and you’re questioning it but you know deep down it was wrong of him. That’s why you’re asking but you already know the answer.

Leave girl, you can’t raise two babies.

This is emotional abuse. He is not respecting you and your boundaries and your pregnant. Please leave or tell him to leave. Make sure you have a friend with you when you do this just in case.

Message me anytime if you need someone I’ll always try help best I can or just listen x

You and your child do not deserve his abuse. Leave for you and for your baby. You can do this without him. If he wants to clean up his act and be someone worth being with - he can decide that alone. If you need any resources for you and baby - standingwithyou.org is an excellent resource and you can find your local pregnancy resource center via zip code in the search bar.

Yikes ;(