I don’t enjoy sex with my partner because I prefer a bigger c***

I feel horrible for saying this but I never feel like having sex with my partner . I don’t get aroused by seeing him naked and when we do have sex I’m just not into it . I’m not sure if I’m attracted to him any more. My sex drive is low anyway and I’ve blamed it on being on antidepressants but actually I think it’s him. He isn’t small , maybe average but my ex had a big penis and I miss the feeling of it …. He’s such a lovely man and he’s a good father . I don’t want to end up alone but I know it’s not good staying with him If the physical side isn’t there… Can anyone relate ?

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Is it just his size or is it his physique?

Go to toy store. But a sleeve. It will entertain u both and hopefully will be better for ya

I can kind of relate, my ex was bigger then my current partner and I do reminisce sometimes 🤭 but i spoke to my partner told him something missing in the sex and since his upped his game turns out he was holding back. You two need to talk it’s the only way go try new things and make sec more exciting.

@Amah in what way was he holding back if you don’t mind saying ? My partner doesn’t last long during sex and I feel like everything he does is a bit gentle 🙈 whereas my ex used to really know what he was doing and would be able to last until I was ready .

Communication in sex and during sex is a must, let him know what you like and how you like it. Also foreplay plays a big part of being aroused, tell him what you want him to do to you. &size doesn’t always matter it’s how he uses it, like I said let him know what you like and how you like it. Or Maybe you might need date nights to get the intimacy flowing. I thought the same thing before but I communicated with my current partner &our sex is great now. Hope this helps ❤️

Romance is a lot more than size and physique. Have you tried talking to him? Of course, don't hurt his feelings about the size. Like different positions, toys, music, foreplay, etc. It's sad if someone just comes down to size. How's the relationship, too? Like normal everyday stuff? That can affect you emotionally as well. Reminiscing about your ex will definitely not help.

Omg ours was exactly the same! He use to come really fast first round but always said he can last longer during the second round and he started implementing that, doing crazier positions and really letting loose. He thought he had to have sex with me a certain way because we were in a relationship ( like he couldn’t have wild sex with me or treat me like a slut, basically live out his fantasy cause he wants to treat me right ). After our chat he understood I don’t want the vanilla sex I want the crazy sex and now it’s great we use toys, even without toys the sex is better wilder and more fulfilling. And he last wayyyyh longer now 😁

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