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@Ebony Rose it’s so hard when I explain over and over and it’s more like his social life over checking the kids
Well just an update. Our 10 month daughter got worse overnight Called him saying I might be taking her to the hospital and think you might need to head back.. Just made up excuses that he can’t drive at night and said he would call me back but never did Next morning and his opened a Snapchat but still not replying
Yeah that’s really really bad! His priorities are clearly elsewhere and he’s not giving two shits about your daughter. I’d be ignoring him now
@Ebony Rose I get his taking time for his dad but at the same time if his daughter is sick, she should be his number one priority. The fact it took 6 calls to just get onto him and his like if she’s in a really bad position I’ll come back. But only if the doctors say
Then will come back and make me the bad guy
You’re not the arsehole! As sad as it is that his dad passed (8 years ago) he should cherish the people that are around! I couldn’t imagine leaving my kids for 4 days & not calling/texting many times a day to check in on them! Xxx
My partner also doesn’t check in on us or ring us, just texts when I need him but I’m personally fine with that and also he’s never been away when the kids have been poorly. I’d say he does obviously have the right to do this but he’s picked a very awkward time to go. You have every right to be annoyed but I’d probably just leave it personally as it could seem controlling. You could explain to him about the not checking in part though, especially with the kids being poorly as he should want to know if they’re okay x