Advice please
I’m with my partner and all we seem to do is go in circles every time I say how I’m feeling he is back and forth to our home as he can’t stay here for the time being and he is just having the best life can sleep in go the pub and decides when he is coming over while I’m looking after all 3 of our kids then we were planning a little holiday next year but all of a sudden he now want a to go on his own he wants to go to concerts on his own while I’m here with the kids 24/7 I’m struggling with my mental health I’ve told him this several times I don’t feel like myself anymore but it’s like he just dosnt understand how I’m feeling instead is turning it on to him saying I’m in the wrong I’m stopping him from doing things it’s not that at all but my issue is he dosnt want to include his plans with the family which was originally planned what do I do ?
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I agree with the first comment. He is acting single. Surely he is not going to concerts alone, Id be thinking he's taking a friend or someone else with him. And if he's already not helping you then leave him. You will eventually find someone who will appreciate you. Because there are men out there who will want to go on holidays with you and spend time as a family x
Thank you for the comments I’m just sick of telling him how I feel feel like now I’ve waisted my life with him he values his freedom over this family when you have kids your limited should be 50/50 and I’m doing everything think it’s time to just call it a day with him I deserve so much more x
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He is acting like a single man, I'd make him a single man 🤷♀️