Friendships

Yes it’s drives me crazy also no one is close to me I’m in Monroe but honestly I get anxious taking the kids out

They stuck up everywhere trust me when you pass the hs stage is soooo hard to make friends even in college i live in nyc and everyone is super fake and stuck up , friends that have kids are too busy to do anything and friends that dont have kids are too turnt up to be around (they like to party ) or always with their partners during the weekend.

This is my OPINION on the clubbing and bars….. if you’re a mom and you’re married hunny what are you doing??? Before I got married I went to clubs but because I was specifically looking for something. When I got married my husband and I went to couple clubs and bars and it just felt weird. My fun night out with other women would be going to a nice restaurant and drinking whatever and just having a conversation. Not out in a scandalous outfit shaking my butt for “my girls” while my husband is home taking care of out children. But like I said my opinion to each their own. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I have met up with 2 moms I have met online. The one girl and I are🤞. We talk everyday and I love her to death. The other one I bought something on marketplace from her and we decided to go to target shopping and she was such a bitch! I told her that I didn’t want to buy an outfit and she kept asking why and I told her “because it isn’t the budget and he doesn’t need anymore” and she thought that was insane. Then I pulled out a bottle with breast milk and she said “why do you bottle feed your baby and not breastfeed?” And I told her I do both but he takes bottles better and she was appalled by that as well. Then when we left we were going to go get lunch and she asked me if I had enough money for lunch🙄🙄 she ended up texting saying her son had a blowout and had to go home. Thank god. Neither of us reached out again. What a bitch. Oh and what’s crazy is I bought BOTTLES from her off market place and she was appalled at the fact that I was bottle feeding my son.

I would never date someone i met at a club😭😭omg but I definitely can understand you is weird I definitely rather go for brunch / or something fun to do like a concert but sometimes a club outing once a year is needed shake some ass for your girls get some compliments and go home to hubby

@Chloe wait what she was concerned because u give him breastmilk but use bottles ? Thats totally normal and hate when other moms shame the way you do things. The pushing you to get an outfit was unnecessary specially at target that doesn’t mean you broke you just smart with your money

@Chloe that’s the other thing I feel like so many people go into debt just to make it seem like they have an aesthetically pleasing life/life style. And if you make one “mistake” that doesn’t fit their lifestyle then it’s “sorry you can’t sit with us”

@Noelle one of the most ridiculous experiences I’ve had as a mother. I couldn’t do anything right! Everything I said she had a better way to do it. I was shopping for his food and she would say “make sure it’s….” Like girl, I can take care of this one, thanks

Yes, that’s so true!

@Chloe people like that are exhausting to be around😢

I forgot the most insane part. When I walked in, she told me to meet her at the electronics desk because she was charging her. Her son had a blowout and she asked the worker if she could change her baby diaper on the electronics desk🤢 okay I’m done now😂 anyways I’m done meeting moms online after that