Mama Drama

Wtf. What do you do when it's been 5 years and this woman still won't just let us live our lives in peace!! We been to court so many times we can't afford to keep going !! My husband wants to throw his hands up and walk away and wait a couple of years for them to be old enough to choose to live with us. This woman is just so miserable and sees a happy family that she threw away and is hating it. But seriously I have PTSD and I can't mentally handle this much longer she is the devil, but leaving those poor kids with her I don't think I could forgive myself. The kids talk about how crazy she is all the time and how much she hates me. What if we leave and the kids get twisted by her lies and hate us. But we need to protect ourselves, our other kids, our mental health!! We're going crazy and that's what she wants is to make everyone miserable like her but on the plus side these kids won't have to deal with their mom grilling them after every visit and telling them mean things about us, and maybe she'll be nicer because she won't because we'll be gone. I don't know what else to do honestly. Me and my husband never never fight and we actually started fighting because of her, she's winning she's getting exactly what she wants.

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I could understand your situation because it is very similar to mine. But no matter what do not let her win nor destroy your household which you have built. Stay grounded and try not to let it come in between your marriage or relationship with the kids, because that is ultimately what she wants and she will feel like it’s working in her favor. Instead don’t feed into her energy but feed into your own and take control of what it is you can. Sadly she may never changes her ways but don’t let it changes yours! My inbox is always open if you ever need to talk:)

She is threatening to take us to court again and my husband isn't the kind to put his foot down and stand up to her. And it's been years I can't take much more I'm going to snap.

Breathe ....I know it's hard I'm going through the same thing don't lose who you are ...don't let anyone drain your energy that energy is to pour into your family not other people that don't matter

Are you me? Am I you?? This is exactly what we are going through, 4 years and she won’t let up. If you want to message me we can vent together! The best is my ex and his ex are in cahoots together trying to hurt us!

@Alyson The crazy thing is both my ex's have a great relationship with me and my husband and we co-parent great together they are here for the holidays birthday parties everything grill outs, bonfires. She did message my ex-husband on Facebook and tried to get him to team up with her or say something bad about me. All he did was screenshot her messages and send them to me.

Glad to see we're all experiencing the same thing. It can feel isolating. I never know what to do. My husband never puts his foot down either. I've taken on the nacho parenting style as much as I can. Nacho kid nacho problem 😅 it's given me a lot of peace. I feel bad for SK all of the time but there really isn't anything I can do at the end of the day.

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