Impatience...

This has happened multiple times now where I comment on a post saying I'd be open to being friends, then while I'm at work or something see a notification of a message but not in a position where I can respond & think oh cool they reached out I'll get back to them as soon as I can, & by the time I have time to put in proper effort to a reply it's gone??! Like just bc I can't reply in 2.5 seconds i get blocked or deleted, is there no understanding that some of us have literal jobs or mom/house duties ? It keeps blowing my mind that I'm excited to get to know someone & by the time I'm in a position to reply it's just gone already. I just can't believe some girls literally just delete with out an IMMEDIATE response like I get it if it's days or something but I feel like it's my fault for having to work at this point which is crazy. Like yes sometimes I am actually busy for a few hours at a time god forbid
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Yea it is weird how difficult it Is to make friends on here.

It's very possible the messages you are getting are spam/scam messages. Someone else reported them and their profile was deleted before you read the message.

I just figure it’s some catfish account or something like a man or a bot when that happens

That’s frustrating I’m sorry You can always message me :)

It has definitely been interesting. I have commented on a post of someone looking for friends. We made it one message in the inbox. Several days later, they were like "Oh sorry I'm not on here that often." How exactly do you expect to make friends if the app you are using for that purpose you don't actually use?🤷🏽‍♀️

@Rhiannon There is a girl in my inbox now that messages me the same 2 messages every single day, sometimes multiple times a day. At first, I was talking to her, and then I was like,wow, this girl really has no conversational skills. Now I'm thinking she probably isn't even real. 🤔

@Sadé Sounds like it could be a bot. There are definitely a lot of fake profiles on this app.

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