Living separately?

My husband and I moved to his home town and I hate it here. Traffic is awful, there’s nothing to do, & I know no one. He’s gone a ton for work. While I was pregnant my husband started making comments about how my hormones were making me mean… this came out of no where and I was shocked and obviously hurt by it. I thought everything was going well. After having our baby, he went right back to work leaving me (unhealed with complications) with a newborn. Then tells me that he’d never have another baby with me because having a baby was awful for him. He constantly tells me that I’m miserable to be around and that my hormones are out of whack. I’m generally a pretty easy going person but saying stuff like that pisses me off. Intimacy has always been difficult for him, he has initiated maybe twice in the last 3 years, every other time it’s because I did. I honestly was always shocked by this. Now he’s saying maybe I should move in with my parents & it would be “better” for me. He says we’ll just be a partnership for our son because he refuses to live closer to my family. He’d rather sell our house. He said “I’ll see the baby the same amount that I do now, I’ll come over after work” I’m 100% convinced that if we physically separate, we’re done but it kind of feels like we already are after this conversation. Thoughts? Anything?