Trips

I am from South Carolina and I’m going on a weekend trip to gaitlinburg. My mother is going holistic that I’m going and I’m not taking my 4 month old baby . He is staying with my sister for the weekend . She’s calling me a bad mom and saying I don’t love my baby calling y phone crying saying I am making a bad decision I’m dickmatized . It’s two nights guys . Am I a horrible mother for not taking my baby

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@Violeta💕 sure

@Madison Hayes I think your mom is just concerned. You are young and you need a break, that doesn't make you a bad mom. It's not easy doing it alone. Are you going with someone you're dating?

@Violeta💕 yes and she’s allowed to he concerned but I don’t think she should he saying some of the things she’s saying yk? I am a single mom my baby daddy lives 4 hours away I’ve been doing this all alone for 4 months I just wanted to Go on a trip . I am going with someone I am dating I don’t wanna bring my kid around so early into the relationship

Calling you crying is a bit extreme and unsettling to me. If your sister is fine with it and other than your mom getting in your head you feel fine then id say go. I envy your confidence post partum lol.

Your mom’s jelly

you can still love your baby and go away for a couple of days - that doesn’t make you a bad mom, especially if you need to do it to recharge a bit. whether or not she is concerned she shouldn’t put you down like that for wanting to have some time for yourself.

@Alexandra this

@Cess yess i almost didn’t go but i decided to go and im so glad I went 🙌

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