in Sex and Relationships with Railey Molinario

Having a hard time

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and we have a 2-year-old. Last night, I had on leggings that I hadn’t worn before. They were regular black leggings with a tummy control band. He commented that they were “butt lifting” (they weren’t. I have always been on the bigger side) and how i had them over my stomach. I thought I looked good in them. He came up to me and pulled my leggings down to expose my stomach (my stomach is huge and flabby) and commented how they hide what I don’t want to show. This felt so violating , and I felt so disgusted towards him. I have always had body image issues but after having my son, it got worse. I tried to talk to him about how violating that was and how it felt like he was being nasty towards me. We got into an argument and when I told him he was gaslighting me, he said, “You learned that word gaslighting from TikTok from some sad girl who probably has mental disabilities,” Just in disbelief. All this in front of my son. I feel so disgusted towards him.

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I’m sorry. That’s so rude

I’d dump him if I was in your shoes. I don’t play games, life is too short to fuck around with dickheads. Kids or not. Sounds like he has no respect for you or even likes you tbh. Also sounds like he has zero respect for other women too.

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Sounds like verbal abuse to me

Girl run…that is so evil…he is deeply emotionally abusing you…if he doesn’t want to be with you then say that like a man…he is projecting his self hate on to you…you have to try and understand spiritual warfare and he is being an agent of the devil fr…I’m sure he doesn’t know that …but that is pure wicked…I feel for your girl because I been through DV where everything was but physical abuse, threats as well…you have to ask yourself how can he use your own trauma and hurts against you just to deepen that wound??? It’s a set up…he is trying to break you 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️ Run girl run

What a mean prick to pull down your leggings to expose your stomach. As women, our body changes so much after pregnancy and for the most part, our stomachs are never the same. I know amongst my other mum friends we all share the same insecurities of our tummies whether that be the mum pouch, stretch marks or still looking pregnant. How dare he mock you in such a vulnerable state! Such a massive violation. 😤 I’m petty as fuck so before leaving him I would fuck with his head too. When he gets dressed ask why his boxers/trousers are up so high, is he trying to contain his belly? Ask him what’s his excuse for being fat? He’s never been pregnant. Hair thinning? Patchy beard? Bad teeth? Find his insecurity and go to town. This guy has zero respect or love for you. Sounds like your relationship has run its course. Figure out an exit plan and leave, don’t let it get to the point where your som starts to copy him and makes comments too.

OMG. That sounds terrible 😕

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