I could have wrote this myself! I really want him to enjoy himself but i also have had a full on day with baby from the moment we woke up so im mentally exhausted and know i will be up with baby in the morning, i dont think its because hea out i think im jealous of the same things as you! X
I get jealous of my partner too whenever he gets to go out and do things he wants to do. He said to me this morning about getting my hair or nails done and my reply was simply “how is that going to work?” Because quite simply my boy relies on me for everything. He’s BF and feeds every couple of hours or so during the day still at 20 weeks old 🫣 so how am I meant to just go and get my hair or nails done? Meeting my own basic needs can be hard some days cos baby just wants to be near/see me. They honestly have no idea how hard and demanding it can be xx
I'm so glad I'm not alone in feeling this way 😔
It he can do it then so should you! I would just say ‘me and the girls are planning a night out, is (date) or (this date) better for you to have baby? Also just say to your partner ‘I’m having a shower’ and leave baby in the room with him! I never ask and neither does my partner - I just tell him what’s happening (as long as neither of us take the piss of course)