Friendships

Does anyone else find it harder finding friends in your upper 30s? I always had friends but lately I find myself not really associating a lot with a lot of ppl. I would love to find a really good group of women and if it’s just one or two I would be fine with that! I just miss having a good connection with a couple other moms going through similar things in life! If you’re in Ct and have pre school aged kids or teenagers please message me! I feel like I’m literally loosing myself lately lol!!! I can’t see waves either

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I’m 38 and definitely feel this! I have no friends really and find it hard to connect with people. I’ve just accepted this is probably life now. 😂😂

@Kristen I’m 39 I have accepted it but I still get sad and lonely and think I need to grow up lol

@Emily I get it girl!! Like I just need one person to talk to aside from my son who doesn’t want to talk to me half the time anyways (he’s 13) haha or when he does, he wants to tell me about the games he is playing that I have no clue about. I’m in KY but you’re welcome to message me if you want to chat sometime! :)

https://snapchat.com/t/ON54ajmy Mom Groupchat!❤️ If Your Interested!

Yes it’s hard I think mainly cos when you’re an adult your personality is very much cemented people aren’t great at compromising and I feel tend to put their family first (understandable) and so friendships aren’t as important. I have about 3 good friends with kids the same age and it’s great to have someone to meet with but I do miss having friends that are up for a last minute drink or meal out when I’m child free. That’s gone out the window 🥹 x

34. Mom of 3 girls im in VA moving to TX but we can chat 🤪 😌

Yes! I'm not in CT but I do have pre school aged child and would love to talk. :)

I’ve met some on here. Some at his baby bounce/mothers group. Some at his kinder. He’s starting school next year and I know I’ll be meeting more mums next year when I’ll be taking him to his new class. I meet them naturally, but I have met 14 on here and out of those meet and chat to 3/4 of them regularly so this app CAN be successful if you reach out and get to know mums and invite out. I’ve also got some single friends (men and women) from my hobby group. All my friends are much younger though like my besties are 5-10yrs younger than me I don’t have many friends my actual age

I’m also finding that relationships are easier when we have kids the same age or in the same activities. Me finding the time or having the energy to meet up 1-1 for coffee dates or last min hangouts is pretty rare 😅

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