Am I trippin?

My bd and his mom are always bitching about his bm, so after my bds bm cheated, he couldn’t provide financially. He doesn’t want to get a real job and relies on his clothing brand to beat the odds and suddenly make all this money. He use to be married and when she cheated he and I got together and her had a baby and it’s been 5 years. His bm use to have nothing but once she realized he couldn’t provide she found herself a sugar daddy and she use to have nothing to all of a sudden having all these cars. We never paid no mind to it but since his ass can’t even provide himself with a car he drives his mamas car but his mama started driving his bm jeep truck. I find it so weird because they stay talking shit about his bm and now they’re driving her car? The car her sugar daddy provides to her. Cause like I said she had nothing when she was with him. And now he’s calling me a hater and wishing I could drive it. He’s totally gaslighting me, I have a real job that I work 8 hrs 6 days a week, and I don’t drink unless it’s my day off and he’s guilt tripping me that I’m this alcoholic when I have one drink. Saying I’m hating and I wish I could drive the jeep truck. Out of all her cars, she has a bmw, brand new, a Durango suv, keep truck, a Porsche. . I’m not jealous of a bitch that relies on other men. But when I’m confused at his mom driving a car she talked so much shit about im gaslighted to the highest extent. Am I Trippin?! What are your perspectives?

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Moral of the story. His mom is driving in his bm jeep truck, the one they talked so much shit about and now his mom is driving around in her car. And I’m so confused as to why. I ask him and he gaslights me and tells me I’m jealous and I wish I could drive it. But it’s like, no, idc about that shit. But why would you vent to me about her being a “prostitute” and having a sugar daddy and then now your driving it. Because your son doesn’t have a car. He’s using his moms car so she needs to use her car? She would rather ask his bm to use her car than borrow mine to pick up her other son at work?

sounds like they are benefitting from her sugar daddy payments now, hence the flip in attitude

This is toxic AF sorry. You need to leave him and his mum to it. Clearly she was only a problem to them when she wasn’t giving them anything, seems like she’s more open to helping them now for whatever reason so they’ve switched sides. Now they are trying to make you look crazy for calling them out on their hypocrisy. Nasty Nasty work tbh. If his mum is encouraging it by driving the BM’s car then best believe your man won’t see anything wrong with it and will follow suit.

Don't waste anymore breath on them. Just ditch his gold digging ass caz clearly it's better to kiss his ex's ass than go to work and have a proper relationship.

What a moron lol suuuper toxic. If he’s not providing anything for you currently, it sounds like you might not miss him much if you duck out of this relationship 👀

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