You have to accept that it's going to be uncomfortable setting and holding these boundaries, but continue doing so for the health of your very small baby.
I would mentioned that a large crowd can be so overwhelming for them too. When we take my little one to a house full he seems so agitated as our house is fairly chilled out so he’s not used to it. Also don’t feel like you need to let everyone hold your baby either. They should be more than happy to just pop round and have a look at them in their moses basket. Xx
Message me hunny i have issue with my family too pls give me a message xx
They have to understand that it's a risk for the health of the baby. You are doing the right thing just keep telling them its not a good idea to be in a big crowd. Even if u are healthy it could still be a risk.