Happy Wife?

I think sometimes it’s mere luck to meet a kind and loving husband. I met my husband through Facebook. We were 17 when he started texting me on there . Guess what I didn’t reply him till 10 years later when my ex left me . I gave him a chance and it was the best decision I ever made . He’s so kind and loving . Works 6 days a week. Soon as he gets home he wash his hand and takes our 6 month old son for me to rest and eat even before he eats too. Most times when I get mad at him I just think about little things like this and forgive him. There are good men out there . I hope you meet your Mr right one day

I have an amazing partner but half of the time we don't even speak to each other so you have to give abd take good and bad i suppose but never cheating or disrespectfulness

I have an amazing man. We’re not married yet but on our way in October! 😁 I met him through my first baby’s dad. So my soon to be sister in law had a baby with my first baby’s dad too. It’s all kinds of a mess. But I’m definitely lucky!

Wow! Thanks ladies!!

Yes!! I’m happily married and wouldn’t have it any other way. There are still good men out there

There are happy days and there bad days. The important thing is to recognise them for what they are and understand each other why they feel the way they do and how can you make them feel better. There will be things you disagree on, there will be certain habits or things they do that will absolutely make you question why you’re with them. But you then need to remember that you love them for who they are, and sometimes they will do something you will not like or enjoy, as long as it doesn’t bring about any harms or cause any distress then you just need to overlook them since that’s just how they are and you can’t change that. There are traits you just can’t change and there are habits which you might be able to influence over time, but in the end, you will just need to accept and ask yourself whether you love the person you’ve chosen to love enough to not mind those little things. Always remember to be a lover after you e become a mother. You crave affections, he probably does too.

I met my husband online on a discord server. We started off as friends and he was interested in dating but I told him I wasn’t and he was so respectful of me it made me attracted to him. He is amazing. From my 6 month olds birth he has done every night feed without me asking. On each day off he has, he gives me two hours to do whatever I want without the children. He always puts my pleasure before his. He has never called me a mean name or insulted me. He tells me I’m beautiful and he loves me and I’m an amazing mom at least twice a day. He is pretty forgetful and we sometimes argue abt dumb stuff but he’s a wonderful man. Hes also the first and only man I’ve ever dated so I think finding him was mostly luck tbqh. We have been together since mid 2016

@Letty very true and always remember every relationship has it own ups and downs and no marriage is perfect

@Justina ups and downs but I just don’t think I should tolerate my husband being naturally selfish and not helping with our son

I agree I’m just reassuring you that no marriage is perfect . I won’t tolerate that too. I want every woman to experience what I’m experiencing

it’s possible !! ever since meeting my husband i’ve never been mad, stressed, or had to struggle lol he truly came into my life just to make it better

There is a difference between happy and perfect I will say. But the key is this: Your partner should always treat you with respect You should always feel like a team You should know your partner never wants to intentionally hurt you Your partner should make you smile every day Your partner should make you feel happy, secure and loved Your partner should always be ready to apologise for hurting your feelings, even if unintended You should have absolute trust in your partner And all of the above goes both ways. I actually met my husband on Bumble! From the first date we both just knew. I’d never had something like that before. He’s so kind, very fun to be around, a really ambitious and down to earth person and truly cares about and supports me. He is my biggest champion in everything and I his. When we have disagreements we never swear or name call or yell. We respectfully discuss how we feel and we apologise if we’ve ever hurt the other. And bottom line: we make each other happier

I have a loving husband who is a very good dad. Met on bumble and he was a hookup 😂 so anything is possible