Sorry to say but it sounds extremely controlling. Remember there is two of you who are adults in the house, therefore two of you have the responsibility of keeping it up together. I do all of ‘the pink jobs’ at home, which I don’t mind at all. However, I make it known that when I am tired or need time for myself at the gym the house work either is on the back burner or my husband needs to step up and help. Do not allow someone to not let you be who you are and who you want to be. My husband had issues with me going to gym at the start of our relationship, I led out that i do it for me and me only therefore I will make the time whether he likes it or not. I know it’s hard but remember you are your priority. ❤️ xx
Oh this is a red flag and very abusive behavior towards you and I’m so sorry you have to deal with it. You’re an adult so I can’t see how another person can tell you not to go to the gym. I’d probably suggest digging into why he doesn’t want to spend time at the house and help you out so you have time for yourself. It’s essential. Your priority should always be your health, your body, and your mind. Tour child and tour family will o lot benefit from it.
Very controlling. The gym has saved me and my mental health! I wouldn’t be giving it up for anyone. If he’s aloud to go, why aren’t you? It’s not making sense to me!
I'd definitely be having a big conversation as to getting behind the truth as to why. Seems to me like he needs to be the one to get his priorities straight not you, does he actually enjoy looking after his child? Does he think it's not his 'job'?
Very odd and controlling. My hubby had recently trained as a PT and before than has always encouraged exercise. Doesn’t care if the house is a state when he gets home from work (in an office) - he knows how hectic mum life is! I don’t like the sound of his controlling and stereotypical this relationship sounds. I hope you are ok x