We had the same issue. We've recently had some success. The things we found made a difference were: - making sure you're using a newborn (size 1) teat - using the side lying position (as Naomi suggested, similar to a cross body breast feeding position, but facing away from the body. Our feeding consultant said if she's happy like this we can slowly start transitioning her over the next few weeks to a more sitting position) - making sure the milk is close to body temp (she still hates milk which is too close to room temp) - tickling her lip with the teat and letting her draw the bottle in (similar to her taking in the nipple when BF). - consistency, offering a bottle every day (some days go better than others, but getting her used to the bottle seems to be helping, and we're slowly seeing more good feeds) - if she is too hungry offering a few minutes of BF first to take the edge off and calm her down (have needed to do this less and less)
My husband also found this really hard, he took it quite personally when she rejected the bottle from him and felt bad when we had to throw away precious pumped milk. But persevere, it's a new skill for baby girl and for both parents, it can take time to learn. Good luck, and remember whatever happens you're doing a great job cause the main thing is baby is being fed! ❤️
Try the NUK perfect match ones c
I've seen people introducing bottle in a breastfeeding position, might be worth a try? x