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Elective c-section

Hi All - i’m now in a dilemma as i wanted to be prepared for giving birth and not have so much anxiety or uncertainty. But is it normal for doctors to scare you while letting you know about the risks of a c-section delivery? She was continuously looking at my husband instead of looking at me while explaining me the ...

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Elective c section

I may be looking to have a elective c section if possible. Does anyone have any positives experiences and recovery with this while having a small toddler?

R
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How long before intercourse to take Mucinex?

How long before baby dancing should I take Mucinex to help with my cervical mucus? I had an LH peak but I haven’t had a lot of ewcm this cycle, so hoping the Mucinex will help. I’ve heard people say to just take it 30mins before intercourse, while others take it days leading up to their fertile window. Should I take...

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Should I be worried

TMI, 36 weeks pregnant. I’ve had thrush almost all through pregnancy, used vaginal tablets, creams but it keeps coming back. I have had heavy discharge since second trimester and I use panty liners to manage it. Does this discharge look normal or should I be worried. Worst that comes to mind is amniotic fluid with m...

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Birth plan

I have always wanted a water birth and I know no birth is a walk in a park but I am really considering opting for a C-section but I’m worried people are going to think I’m letting them down or my body down. What’s everyone’s thoughts on C-sections and I know some of you couldn’t help but have a c-section due to comp...

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Induction this Friday (cholestasis)

I’m getting induced at 37 weeks due to cholestasis. This is my second pregnancy, my water broke for my first. I’m extremely worried and nervous. Anyone experienced this?

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Hospital bags - how much is too much?!

Hey, so I have packed a small gym bag and one of the really small cabin suitcases for hospital. Mostly because my hoody and towel takes up half the bag 🤦🏼‍♀️ Are two bags too much to take in? I’ve seen some people only take one small bag and I just don’t know how. Especially with adult size nappies that are just…

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C section or Induction?

I am currently 40+1 and have been booked in for an induction for 41 weeks due to my health. However I have been thinking of having an elective c section instead of induction as I’ve heard such horror stories! I don’t know what to do and I’m just worried about an induction not working and having to be in hospital for...

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2nd c section

My first c section was an emergency with My little one who is 2 years old now. I’m currently 30 weeks pregnant with my 2nd and haven’t yet 100% decided but think I am heading more towards an elective. Although my 1st was an emergency, my recovery was really positive. I had no pain, no problems after and now my scar ...

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Croydon community midwives

Hello Croydon Mummies, did the midwives come out to you for your first appt post birth or did you have to go to them? Tia!

M
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C-section tips please

Hi all, I am 37 weeks with my second child. I had a wonderful natural birth with my first, but my second is breech so I’ve been advised to have a planned c-section. I actually feel quite anxious about major surgery and have hardly done any reading on c-sections as I stupidly thought my second pregnancy would e...

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Tubes tied?

With my next C-section coming up, my doctor has presented me with the option of having my tubes tied. Those of you that had it done while having a c section, how was the experience and the healing?

K
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At Home Induction

I’m 1cm dilated. What exercises and or foods did you lovely ladies use that may have thinned your cervix or even pushed you into labor?

Z
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Period after c section

How long after having a c section can I expect my period?

P
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1-2cm dilated at 37+4

Went into maternity today for what felt like contractions! They did monitoring which confirmed contractions and a cervical check and told me I’m 1-2cm dilated and 75% effaced. Has anyone else had this alongside contractions?? And how long roughly did it take for baby to come??🤭

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Private Room at St George’s Hospital

I am due to give birth at St George’s hospital in tooting. I am just wondering if it is possible to pay for a private room at this hospital? Has anyone done that before?

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Emergency c section/ planned c section

Hi, So I had emergency c section 2 years ago and was put to sleep for it. This was quite scary for both husband and I. I'm now pregnant again. I could try for natural birth. But neither me or husband want to try. We have so many scars from the emergency c section. We are both pretty scared, happy,but scared that ...

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Contraction timer

Hey! There are a few different contraction timers. Does anyone recommend a specific one? And what’s the difference between them all? Most you need to pay so I want to buy one that’s most recommended.

J
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First Time Mum - Basildon Hospital

Hey! I’m a first time mum planning to give birth at Basildon Hospital but I’m seeing negative stories/articles… has anyone had a positive birth experience there?

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Breech

Is anyone else still breech or had any experience of ECV I’m currently 36+4 baby has always been breech, booked in for a c section in 3 weeks time and offered an ECV for next week…however not sure I want this they told me to book it and I can decide on the day of. Was dead against it but the consultant was lovely a...

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