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Induction

Hey ladies, I am getting induced today at 40 weeks with my first baby. Feeling mixed emotions. Scared but excited at the same time. Hope everything goes well for me and baby.

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How long after losing mucus plug did you go into labor ? I think I just lost mine plus there was a little bit of pink .

Also I was 1 centimeter dilated at my appointment this past Friday .

Incognito
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Naturally inducing while baby is breeched

Iā€™m 38 weeks & 5 days , I am exhausted in pain & feeling defeated . Does anyone know what will happen if I try to induce ? Is it safe ? I still havenā€™t gotten a c-section scheduled

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Tips for attending a wedding?

We are attending a wedding in a couple of weeks time and I'm worrying about the logistics of having baby girl there. Does anyone have any tips that might be useful? Thank you x

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C-section preparing & any advice for after?

I have opted for an elective c-section at the end of this month and have been researching how to help the recovery and scar tissue post op as Iā€™m (vain I know) a little worried about the overhang people talk about and really want to do everything I can to help the scar and my recovery as starting to panic a little b...

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Flying after c-section

I have a flight 28 days after my c-section. Is it safe? The duration is of 1 hour. My incision has almost healed now. Need inputs from mamas who has done the same

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Being induced

Hi does being induced hurt? I would imagine the membrane sweep must hurt or be uncomfortable?? Iā€™m about 34 almost 35 weeks and im starting to think about the possibility of being induced in a month or so but I do so bad with physical discomforts (thanks asd!! šŸ™ƒ)

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Out of breath

Is it normal to be this out of breath at 21 weeks I only walked to the toilet and back to bed šŸ˜‚

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Delivery question

So I donā€™t know why Iā€™m just now thinking about this but Iā€™m very curious. When you were fully dilated and about to start pushing did they throw water on you down there? Also, if they did, does anyone know why? I didnā€™t have that when I had my oldest daughter 2 years ago but it was also in another state. Iā€™m just ho...

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35 weeks

Iā€™m so fucking huge and incapable of anything Evolutionarily it makes zero sense to be this unable while so vulnerable Like if we were living in caves right now I would have been eaten by a lion by now I canā€™t even walk around my local Westfield on my own without regretting my choice to be walking and upright ...

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Contractions

Iā€™m pretty sure Iā€™m contracting they are about 10mins apart at the moment last 30/40 secs. I am booked in for an elective C-section on Tuesday. I have said if she was to come before this date I will try and labour. My waters have not broke so I guess it could be a while still rightā€¦ second pregnancy and tbh I have h...

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EDD 10/10

Any other mamas due 10/10? Have you had a cervical check? If so, is baby ready or you donā€™t see labor happening any time soon?

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C-Section Mamas

How did you guys handle the pain and uncomfortable feeling? One side is more sharp feeling and it is so sore! They said itā€™s Normal as itā€™s fresh wound and stitches etc, but trying to walk is WORKšŸ«£ What have you done to help ease it more? Iā€™m not sure what pain pills Iā€™m being sent home with yet but so far Iā€™veā€¦

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c section recovery stories

I had a healthy pregnancy and planned for a natural birth but ended up having an emergency c section. Recovery was like the following: - First few days were horrible. I had so much pain in my belly that i couldnā€™t breastfeed as baby weight on my belly would hurt - Horrible gas pain and no bowel movement for 4 day...

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C section recovery!

Hi! Any mums that have had kids before via C-section , how was recovery like? i've heard loads of different stories that it's really hard but i'd like to hear any personal experiences of it and how painful it was to manage just to mentally prepare for it if i do have to have a emergency one . Do you feel them stitc...

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Alone!

My due date is coming up this week right. Now unfortunately my boyfriend has to leave far to work this week. If I start labor this week, would I be able to drive myself to the hospital or no ? Have any of yā€all done that ? Because I know they say you will need a ride because of the pain. Sadly, I will be alone so Iā€™...

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Just curious

My husband and I are having a discussion about which is more difficult/ painful vaginal or C-section birth and Iā€™m curious for moms who have maybe experienced both what your thoughts are or just in general what you hear We are not discrediting any form of birth btw just very curious as despite having no experience...

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Scar help

What's the best creams to use on cesarean scar? I've been given a barrier cream to help the soreness around the area but it doesn't seem to be working.

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Contractions

Iā€™m at 33w and still donā€™t know how contractions feels like. Worry that I wonā€™t know if Iā€™m in labor or just the usual pain (lower back, cramping) that I usually have.

J
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Labour stories

Iā€™m 40 weeks and have no signs of labour! I was 3 weeks early with my first girl so it really feels like this pregnancy is dragging. If you went over your due date I would love to know your labour story and how it started. Did you have signs or just randomly start getting contractions?

J
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